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Had a fling whilst away and feel sick

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regrettingit · 15/12/2005 22:10

At the time it was amazing, total lust. But now I feel sick, not with guilt as there isn't much passion in my marriage but with the way the fling went on. I should feel guilty and maybe I will but not at the moment.

It lasted 2 nights and he was saying how much he'll miss me etc..and that he loved me I know it's a crock of sh*t but it was really getting to me. I fancied him like mad but this talk was way too much. He even cried ffs??

Has anyone else had this? I used to have the odd fling years ago but don't remember blokes talking this way?

It's hit me how mad it was and I wish I could turn back the clock but I can't, just feel like crap

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PrincessPlumPuddingHead · 17/12/2005 22:34

finally read this thread.
am I the only person that thinks if you don't sleep with someone it isn't a fling but a snog?

hmmmm, must just be me, then. seems a bit much to tar and feather her over...

SackAche · 17/12/2005 22:37

PPH - No you're not the only one! A fling to me is sleeping with someone. I can't remember how many people I snogged on my Hen Night! I even snogged a female friend! Don't class any of them as flings.... and if DH did the same I wouldn't think of it like that either.

PrincessPlumPuddingHead · 17/12/2005 22:40

also amazed that flutterbee has spent so long thinking about exactly what might constitute slut-dom....

not a word I would ever use about anyone, personally

hercules · 17/12/2005 22:40

does several snogs constitute being a slut?

PrincessPlumPuddingHead · 17/12/2005 22:41

ask flutterbee, she seems to have a very complicated matrix that she consults to come to her conclusions.

SackAche · 17/12/2005 22:42

ROFL - I was a rrrrrrright slut on my hen night then.

Nightynight · 17/12/2005 22:49

what are you all making such a fuss about, flutterbee was perfectly logical in her original post

flutterbeedreaminofawhitexmas · 17/12/2005 22:49

Not once on here have I said anything about snogging, the original poster said she had had a fling but not sex. Now in my mind the use of the word fling says it went a bit further than just a snog don't you. And for the very final and last time I called NO ONE a slut.

flutterbeedreaminofawhitexmas · 17/12/2005 22:49

Thank-you nightynight I thought I was going stark raving bonkers.

bigbaubleeyes · 18/12/2005 00:24

Regret - I think that was anice post - I hope you get through your xmas ok as I know you said you had oterh stuff going on - best wishes.

gravity · 18/12/2005 13:27

good luck regrettit - i hope everything works out for you and dh and your family. try and have a nice relaxation period over christmas x
flutterbee - i getya - i know you never called anyone a slut, your message just needs to be read properly. hugs x

hercules · 18/12/2005 16:29

My last post here. I did read flutters post correctly and still disagree. I dont think it's acceptable to use the word slut full stop.

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