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Had a fling whilst away and feel sick

162 replies

regrettingit · 15/12/2005 22:10

At the time it was amazing, total lust. But now I feel sick, not with guilt as there isn't much passion in my marriage but with the way the fling went on. I should feel guilty and maybe I will but not at the moment.

It lasted 2 nights and he was saying how much he'll miss me etc..and that he loved me I know it's a crock of sh*t but it was really getting to me. I fancied him like mad but this talk was way too much. He even cried ffs??

Has anyone else had this? I used to have the odd fling years ago but don't remember blokes talking this way?

It's hit me how mad it was and I wish I could turn back the clock but I can't, just feel like crap

OP posts:
SackAche · 16/12/2005 11:28

lol Bigbaubleeyes! Exactly.

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:28

ok so THREE of usare nosy parkers and I am deffo a slut

gravity · 16/12/2005 11:29

i am not even referring to anyone as a slut - as i said if your single do as you please - if in a relationship and need to seek any type of male attention of any description other than that of the person you are in a relationship with you just need to take a step back and look at where your relationship is going wrong before somebody (yourself or partner) gets hurt.

SackAche · 16/12/2005 11:29

Flutterbee - My post crossed with your post!

Quote:
"If however you keep on going out and having "flings" no matter how far they go then you become a slut in my opinion"

Ahem.. you clearly refer to other flings here. I'm reading what you're typing ma dear!

And there we go again..... slut reference.

SpringCrimboTurkey · 16/12/2005 11:29

BigBaubleyes - I'msure whoever it was that posted this would have exptectedpeople to wonderwho sheisand what actually happened. It;s human nature.

bigbaubleeyes · 16/12/2005 11:30

Your last post flutter is more clear - you mean this could be the start of a pattern if she doesn't fix what might be wrong or get out. I see now.

flutterbeedreaminofawhitexmas · 16/12/2005 11:30

Also if you read my post you will see that I have put that you can have as many "flings" as you want (I too have had a few) whilst not married but when married is totally different.

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:30

so when hte window lcleaner hoots his hornn at me adn i am rather sadly pleased ( he si dish mungous) my marriage is in d rpobs?
or am i jsy enjoying the flattery>

SackAche · 16/12/2005 11:30

Gravity - Sorry... I was directing the 'slut' rant at Flutterbee, not you.

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:31

sacky i havent your email addy an ymroe

SackAche · 16/12/2005 11:32

And I don't have yours either! When my home PC died my email addresses went with it. I'll CAT you.

gravity · 16/12/2005 11:32

stop being a slut to the window cleaner The Fish - now thats a joke!!!!!!!

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:32

iam a NORTH atlantic fisha fter all

bigbaubleeyes · 16/12/2005 11:32

Bloody hell - I meant the other one posts crossed.

Surely between us we can draw out some conclusive advice it REGRET may be laughing now at our expense! (looking on the bright side I mean if you are reading hope you've stopped hurling)

SpringCrimboTurkey · 16/12/2005 11:33

Oh dodgy ground Fish

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:33

what about my policeman too?
he always vists me when i am aALONE

TheFish · 16/12/2005 11:34

not in uniform though

SpringCrimboTurkey · 16/12/2005 11:34

But that'sOK, he'sapoliceman

SackAche · 16/12/2005 11:35

lol Fish!

gravity · 16/12/2005 11:35

The Fish- hey now a uniform - i'm likin that!!!! not so slutty anymore!!!

bigbaubleeyes · 16/12/2005 11:36

Now u've just gone silly on this poor persons thread girlies!

gravity · 16/12/2005 11:37

sorry - your right. i hope you can sort it out regrettit

SpringCrimboTurkey · 16/12/2005 11:37

sigh

harpsiheraldangelssing · 16/12/2005 11:38

am with Sackache on this one
need to absorb it
get a grip
move on

you'll have a crap Chirstmas but hey ho
life's a games of consequences

fishy SLUT
it was the delivery man yesterday

crosses arms and rearranges bosom in a disapproving fashion

bigbaubleeyes · 16/12/2005 11:38

Anyway REGRET posted late lastnite - she maybe at work now and then she'll get in tonight and wait for DH to be out of the way and wade thru this avalanche of posts.

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