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WHO'S THE DADDY???

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chacha1976 · 08/08/2008 17:53

Okay, so here's the problem and please dont judge I'm pretty mad at myself as it it. I have a 28 day cycle, I had sex with Mr. A on day 12 and 13, sex with Mr. B on day 18 and sex with Mr. C on day 19. All three were unprotected. Now I'm pregnant? Who's most likely to be the daddy????

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LynetteScavo · 09/08/2008 08:35

Having given it serious thought over night, I'm definately going with Mr.A.

Can't sperm live for upto 3 day's?

I also reckon the baby will be a girl.

MrsMattie · 09/08/2008 08:37

So now that 150 unqualified stranger son the internet have cast their votes, does that make it any clearer for you?@ the OP?

Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 08:40

MrsMattie she might genuinely have not known even the basics of ovulation vs conception, so it might have made things slightly clearer.
She was only after suggestions and most people have come up with the same answer...probability and all that - might not be right but there is a leaning in favour of the closest to average.

Not that I am making any sense...

MrsMattie · 09/08/2008 08:44

Sorry, I think that's pretty lame. Is she going to go away from this thread saying to herself 'Well, if 60 per cent of MN-ers say Man A then they must be right. I'll go and tell him now!'

...???

There is absolutely no way she can know who the father of her child is without DNA testing and that is the only answer anyone should be giving if they genuinely want to help her.

Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 08:46

Ok I am feeling lame today. Will leave it.

Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 08:47

was just trying to help.

Twelvelegs · 09/08/2008 08:48

Each of my four pregnancies were conceived at a different stage of my cycle.... there is no certainty which father it could be. Except an unsuspecting fool who should have used a condom. You should get a full std test.

Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 08:48

actually it wasn't my 'bitchy' post even that got deleted...no idea what the deleted one said!

I hope they do delete the horrid one though.

Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 08:50

yes I do...it said 'Argggghhhhhhhhhhhhh! '

That was all it said word for word except maybe the wrong number of 'g' s as opposed to 'h' s.

anniepan · 09/08/2008 08:54

chacha...
dont let the insults bother you... really dont.
I had a similar situation with baby no 1....
it was the first one!
but to be honest didnt really care as i was going it alone anyway.. didnt expect to fall pregnant i was on the pill but it happened.. and i never intended to stay with ethier of them i said nothing... until 2 years later when the csa were invloved and had dna tests... turned out it was mr a.... loads of us have been there and done that.... sod all of those of dont approve.. shit happens...
good luck babe

justaboutagrownup · 09/08/2008 08:59

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Flightputsonahat · 09/08/2008 09:02

It's horrible and I am sorry for my part in it...fwiw I was trying to defend her though JAM

LynetteScavo · 09/08/2008 09:18

I'm just gob smacked that all 3 men didn't use a condom.

liahgen · 09/08/2008 10:30

anniepan. Absolutely nothing to do with this conversation, i have been lurking.

Just wanted to tell you , we call our baby by your name.

Mamazon · 09/08/2008 10:38

Im guessing that none of these men are likely to be sticking around for too long once they realise that A) you slept with two others within days and B) your pregnant by one of them.

personally i wouldn't give myself the headache of trying to figure it out and just go it alone.

AS for us being harsh and judging you unfairly....i think it quite reasonable to judge someone who has behaved irresponsibly the way you described.
if you were my daughter i can assure you, you would have been hearing a lot worse than the very lighthearted jokes you recieved here.

justaboutagrownup · 09/08/2008 13:57

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StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 09/08/2008 14:00

Who's the daddy?

Which ever one earns the most!

Qally · 09/08/2008 14:27

I know who I think has cause to be most ashamed by this thread, and it isn't the original poster.

A total stranger's consensual sex is none of your damn business! How dare you impose your own, personal moral code on her, when she's very possibly genuine, vulnerable, and seeking help? If you believe in lights off, marital missionary, fabulous. I hope it makes for bliss. If someone else wants to swing from the light fittings with an entire rugby team? Equally fabulous. Sure, she's been careless, but as she already knows that, please keep your orgasms of self-congratulatory virtue to yourselves, and the pleasure you so clearly feel in belittling others back to the privacy it deserves. It's a thoroughly dirty, nasty little habit, and not one us normal types want to witness in public, thanks.

Monkeytrousers · 09/08/2008 14:50

lol

thanks twig!

MavisG · 09/08/2008 17:06

What Qally said. Big time. Wish you every good luck, chacha.

Isabellasmam · 09/08/2008 17:37

go qually! whatever happens your lo will make you smile

mankymummy · 09/08/2008 17:41

its pearce brosnan (sp?) obviously. think OP been watching mamma mia!!!

mankymummy · 09/08/2008 17:43

oops that sounded bitchy... was meant in a nice way, almost got carried away watching it myself.

ImnotMamaGbutsheLovesMe · 10/08/2008 12:32

For those that have a problem with what I said -

my concern is for the child who might not know who its real father is and for the father who will miss out on the pregnancy bonding time.

If she wants to sleep with 3 men, that is her choice.

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