Just catching up :)
@petitlapin1 Sorry about the UTI, but also i'm very glad you got it checked out. Definitely the right move.
@stimpyyouidiot I was feeling like you recently. Yesterday I was very crampy though, but today woke up and there is a BUMP. Before it was a burrito belly, now there is no hiding it now. 19 weeks on Tuesday and 2nd child, so guess it was just time till it really popped out. I had one day of feeling kicks at 16 weeks and nothing since. My doctor said we likely have the anterior placenta or whatever blocks it. I'll know for sure in 2 weeks at the 20 week scan, but it is unnerving. At the 16 week cervical check I could see his bum in the picture and he did a big movement, and I couldn't feel a thing, so I think I'm just really bad at feeling movements (I was like this last time too). I do feel like things are moving up though. Last night I didn't eat much and was so full, also need to pee every 5 mins today. Guessing that things are getting compressed now.
@SoOverThisCrap personally, i'd want the scan, and if you do, I hope you get it. It is a extra money, but for a lot of reassurance, and hopefully your OH can support your needs in that aspect if you can afford it. I think as they don't feel what we do, they don't understand, so it can be tricky.
@BlueSky57 congratulations on the girl! Lovely scan!