@Roxystar23 I’m having another boy. There are great things about either gender, but thing is knowing means letting go of the other option, which of course is a little sad. My son is thrilled he’s getting a brother, and, aside from choosing a name, it’s a much easier option, as I know what I’m doing (at the risk of being too gendered, I can barely plait my own hair let alone someone else’s - what if I had a really girly girl?), but I’m a little sad my son won’t have a small opinionated sister to challenge him, and we won’t be able to see what’s the Y chromosome at work and what’s simply our full-on genes.
@MrsNT - were you asking about changing bags? Get one of you want to treat yourself, and specific pockets are always handy (I had one which had a pocket with thermal lining to keep the bottle the right temp), but, genuinely, any bag will do. I streamlined down to a small backpack if I knew I was only planning to be out for an hour or so, as you tend to find yourself lugging SO much everywhere.