No heartbeat detected at ultrasound

[BC11]

Hi all,
I went for a private scan yesterday thinking I was approx 7 weeks + 6 days. It’s been measured at 6 weeks 5 days and no heartbeat has been detected. Has this ever happened to anyone else, and has anyone ever had a successful story? I’m confident it must be a missed miscarriage. I’ve had no symptoms but my tender breasts have eased a lot now too. ☹️

I'm so sorry @Furbabymum15, I had 2 MMCs last year. It's really hard to process. I'll be thinking of you 💜

@BC11 sending you lots of love xx

@Furbabymum15 Thank you. I’ll be thinking about you Monday, let me know how you get on. @VenusStarr I still feel absolutely shattered all the time - no matter how much sleep I have. Is this likely to be because of my hormones being all over the place still? Xxx

I think so @BC11, for me the hormone fluctuations felt quite erratic for a few weeks. It was like I could feel them dropping. One minute I'd be fine, the next I wasn't. It does settle eventually xx

Thank you @venusstarr hope you’re feeling okay xx

@ VenusStarr thankyou Hun x yes it's Very hard for the mind to catch up 🙃 I hope you're well xx

@ BC11 I will let you now how I go and also be good to hear how you get along. I'll be thinking of you x

Hi @Furbabymum15 good luck tomorrow, hope all goes as well as it can. How you feeling? Xx

@BC11 thankyou bless ya for thinking of me. I'm ok but nervous and upset when I think about it. I'm getting a bit crampy so would be surprised if it kicks off soon. How are you feeling today? X

@Furbabymum15 No surprise you’re feeling like that. By far the worst feeling, it makes me feel so empty and numb. It’s difficult to describe to people who haven’t been through it. Hope it does kick off for you naturally, and over with fast so you can start to recover a bit better. I’m getting there, up and down. Worried about tomorrow as I didn’t really want the surgical option. Xx

@BC11 aww you will be fine Hun, I had the tablets last time and it was brutal. I really didn't want it again but they won't do the surgical option for me this time because of Corona virus. (I'm in Yorkshire). I agree it's an awful feeling takes a long time for the body and mind to catch up and by the time they do it's all changed again. It's like I know I'm pregnant but my mind knows that it's basically over but my body still in pregnancy mode. Then by the time the process is over my mind has to readjust to what has just happened x on a plus side a lovely work colleague called by today with a lovely box of chocs I can enjoy in a few days. Big hugs to you, we can get through this together ❤️

@Furbabymum15 Aw really, why was it awful last time? I’ve only lost one blood clot, barely any bleeding which I thought might have been in. But apparently more is expected.
Would you have opted for the surgery if you could?
Yes, my body still is in pregnancy mode it’s absolutely horrible. My mind wants to believe it too ☹️. Aw that’s a lovely gesture! Xx

I would 100 percent take the surgery....last time they vised me taking the tablet, and sent me home. Within 5 minutes of taking the pillmy tounge felt like it had several lacerations, while walking to the car I was shaking with cold my teeth were banging I was so cold, by time I got home I was lightly bleeding then within a few hours the bleeding was uncontrollable I had to stay on the toilet it was so thick and heavy. After a few hours the baby passed and I continued to bleed uncontrollably for hours. Every time I moved away from toilet it gushed everywhere. In total I bled for 16 days. I know what pain I'm facing tomorrow and it's not gunna be pretty. I've to go alone also ❤️

@Furbabymum15 oh my god that sound awful! I really hope it’s a bit better for you this time! ☹️. It’s horrible how we have to go alone, at a time like this we really need the support. Have you got anyone who can wait in the car for you? Xx

Thinking of you both today @BC11 @Furbabymum15 ❤️❤️ xx

@BC11 good luck today......the hospital have just called me to tell me they've no available beds and I've to come tomorrow instead!!! I'm fuming xx

@ VenusStar thankyou so much, the hospital can't do mine today now so I've to wait til tomorrow ☹️

@VenusStarr Thank you! I’ll let you know how I get on.
@Furbabymum15 thank you! Oh my god, WHAT! That’s horrendous! Why are they prolonging it for you. Do you need a bed for the medication? They just put me on a chair and gave it me and discharged me after 20. That’s ridiculous. ☹️ Xx

I'm so sorry @Furbabymum15, that's really horrible after you psych yourself up 😔

@BC11 hope it goes well today

Sending you both lots of love xx 💜

@VenusStarr @Furbabymum15 hi both. Had surgery and back home recovering now. I feel okay at the minute. The hospital staff were absolutely amazing. Offered me to have the baby’s ashes too which is really nice and gave me a teddy for aching arms charity. Hope you’re both okay xxx

I'm so pleased you were well looked after @BC11, I hope your recovery is smooth. That's really lovely about the bear too, I follow Aching Arms on Instagram and gave seen the bears. Hope you're feeling OK today xx

@Furbabymum15 how are you? I hope today goes OK. I'll be thinking of you xx

Thank you @venusstarr ❤️

Good luck today @furbabymum15 I hope it all goes as well as possible. Let us know how you get on. Xxxx

@VenusStarr thankyou so much for thinking of me. I'm here now and all hooked up just waiting on the tablets x

@BC11 I hope youre feeling ok today and glad yesterday went as well as it possibly could. That so beautiful about the teddy xx I glad they looked after you so well. I'm here now waiting on the tablets xx

@Furbabymum15 I feel physically better I think. But emotionally I’m all over the place now it’s actually gone ☹️
Good luck today, I really hope it’s over soon for you. Xxx

😢 Be gentle with yourself @BC11 ❤️

I hope you're OK @Furbabymum15 xx

@BC11 I'm glad you're feeling better physically but now the mental journey begins xx just know you're not alone xx

@ VenusStarr thankyou for thinking of me today.