Posifrickinspring thread for PG after MC!

[BertieBotts]

If we can't be positive about the weather what can we be?

Welcome posters new and old.

Thanks intelligent. Keeping occupied and keeping fingers crossed

Another gentle handhold snorebrown Thinking of you and hoping for reassuring news for you.

I was in a complete tailspin when I had my beigeish cm a couple of weeks ago and then got back ache which sent me doolally. At first I thought the back pain was in my head as it was such a known trigger from my past mcs, then it was definitely real and I was mentally detaching from the whole thing. And then all was actually fine, baby is healthy and growing and bobbing around. Which still seems incredibly unlikely! I hope the same is true for you xxx

Thanks Anne :0)

How are you today @Snorebrown?

Touch wood... ok. Thanks for asking :0)

Just to say, I'm still getting period like back pain now at 19 weeks. It's really strange but not worrying any more as touch wood no bleeding. Though I did have a horrible dream the other night where I did!

Ladies, do symptoms come & go? I have been so nauseous all week & today its barely there, obvs freaking out that its another mmc 😕. Im 6+3 today.

I'm 15 weeks pregnant tomorrow, we had a miscarriage in December and then I got pregnant without a period in the middle. I spent the first 8 weeks stressing out and now I've relaxed a little bit. I've worried myself reading another persons story. It's hard not to stress, I feel like I've made myself anxious now and worrying about counting kicks even though I'm not at that stage... trying to get myself down from my stress mountain

keepinghopeful I found that my nausea (which was always quite mild) completely came and went - I had mornings/afternoons/whole days of feeling fine which gradually got longer and then it went away completely at around 13 weeks. Mine didn't kick in until later anyway - around 8 weeks - but I've seen the question about fluctuating symptoms asked over and over on this forum, and it seems to be a really, really common experience - probably more common than the more unlucky experience of finding them relentless, in fact.

Yes absolutely symptoms are all over the place especially in the first trimester.

nelle I think we all create stress mountains in the early days, I really can’t see myself relaxing until I’m at least 20 weeks. It seems impossible sometimes that I’ll ever make it that far (I’m only 6 weeks tomorrow). And yet I’ve made it to 6 weeks when lots don’t so why shouldn’t I keep going. I find when I get stressed I have to remind myself of how far I am already and that I am indeed pregnant today and it really does help a little. Sometimes I find the weekends drag and I have too much time to think things over whereas the week with work keeps my mind more distracted. I’m so looking forward to Tuesday to working when I can think about something else!!

Hi all, been a hazy few days but thanks for all your kind wishes. We are in love and thankful every day.

For @BertieBotts hope these cheeks are chubby enough for you

Thank you ladies for the reassurance, how id love to be living in blissful ignorance of no losses!

Aw what a gorgeous little baby!! Glad to see you are both doing well!

Thanks @NoCatsHere I know what you mean about being off work. I'm off for 2 weeks now and I know I will end up reading all the problem pages and getting worse. My midwife appointment is next week she might be able to get me off worry mountain

@MsJuniper what a beautiful baby!

@NelleB I am totally with you on the worrying like there is no end. I have no idea if it gets easier!

mrsjuniper those cheeks, chin, nose!!

He's adorable

@mrsjuniper Oh what a little pudding! 😍

Awwwww! So cute :o Lovely baby pic!

Beautiful @MsJuniper you must be so thrilled !

Oh she's gorgeous, msjuniper! Many congratulations again and wishing you, your DH, your DS (I hope he's enjoying being a big brother!) and her so many happy days together to come.

Lovely msjuniper congratulations xx

juniper lovely photo, perfect cheeks! Thanks so much for sharing!

Hey everyone thank u for the hand holds. A little heartbeat seen today xx

Fabulous news snore

@Snorebrown fab 😊😊😊