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My boyfriend wants me to have an elective c section

170 replies

061678719x · 31/12/2016 20:59

My boyfriend wants me to opt for a c section because his small mind thinks that my down stairs will never go back to normal. Opinions on this?

OP posts:
Wonderflonium · 31/12/2016 21:00

Dump him and don't look back. Christ. Is that all you are to him? A "down stairs" to put his dick into?

WaitroseCoffeeCostaCup · 31/12/2016 21:01

Yeah, don't let him down there ever again.

Fairylea · 31/12/2016 21:01

Biscuit he's an arse!

WheresTheEvidence · 31/12/2016 21:01

I'd get rid

Blackbird82 · 31/12/2016 21:01

Was he being serious?

RacoonBandit · 31/12/2016 21:02

Show him the door.

He is an arsehole.

sweetkitty · 31/12/2016 21:02

Oh dear

TheGruffaloMother · 31/12/2016 21:02

Why do you need opinions? Surely yours is quite strong?

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 31/12/2016 21:02

Tell himto FO. Seriously. Do what you think it's best. Plus good luck telling your doc you want a c-section for this reason.

WellErrr · 31/12/2016 21:02

Tell him to fuck right off?

talksensetome · 31/12/2016 21:03

Wow how pathetic, him not you . Dump him and then your 'downstairs' is not his concern.

JumpingJellybeanz · 31/12/2016 21:03
Shock
ricepolo · 31/12/2016 21:04

Presumably he also doesn't want you to BF because it'll make your boobs all 'saggy'?? Thought so.

Good to see he's got the best interests of you and your unborn child at heart...Hmm

SteppingOnToes · 31/12/2016 21:04

Genuinely curious - does it go back to normal?

Cynara · 31/12/2016 21:05

Oh good grief. What an utter bastard. Tell him you'll have a c section when he books himself in for a penis enlargement. Seriously, a man who wants you to go through unnecessary major abdominal surgery in the interests of his future sexual satisfaction is not worth your time. Get rid, you deserve far better.

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RacoonBandit · 31/12/2016 21:05

No it stays the same size as the babies head and you whistle in the wind Grin

SillyBub · 31/12/2016 21:06

Here, it's the very last one from the Christmas selection box --> Xmas Biscuit

Scabetty · 31/12/2016 21:06

Wankstain - reduce him to it.

Ilovecaindingle · 31/12/2016 21:06

Only if he is in the next cubicle having a penile expansion..... Grin

ricepolo · 31/12/2016 21:07

Yep-I've had three and the last two just fell out when I coughed discreetly....

Original poster
061678719x · 31/12/2016 21:07

My opinion is that he's being absolutely disgusting. But then I thought - is it just me? Does he have a point? I just don't understand how someone can be so inconsiderate. A c section is not the safest option for me and my baby..there's just no telling him?

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DoomGloomAndKaboom · 31/12/2016 21:08

He wants you to have major abdominal surgery for (in his tiny mind) his own sexual gain?

WellErrr · 31/12/2016 21:09

Don't think so, Whats.

Doesn't work like that anyway OP, unless your boyfriend has ££££ to finance your hypothetical section. You don't get to rock up to the NHS and request a section because your boyfriend wants one.

Lou2711 · 31/12/2016 21:10

God men are stupid.

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