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Full moon tonight!

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Fissawissa · 08/10/2014 12:46

39 weeks today & a full moon tonight.
Come on baby! Anyone else want to join me in a moon dance tonight?

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duvetfan · 16/10/2014 15:18

I am hoping so. I am so desperate that I am disappointed that it has settled down. How are you doing?

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 16/10/2014 15:37

Just got back from the MW. I asked her when they start Sweeps and she said 41 weeks Angry so I teased "not 38+5 then?" to which she just responded "sex" Grin

DH will be happy!

Baby 3/5 engaged and I have a bruised fanjo.

ruth1104 · 16/10/2014 16:16

fox hope things improve for your ds, he sounds like a real tough little cookie! think that does all sound very promising!! (though im hoping the bruised fanjo and sex arent related...) nothing very exciting happening here, i was getting period like pains and a bit of spotting after the sweep but its just turned into plain old backacheSad

duvetfan · 16/10/2014 16:19

Oh that is exciting Think. My hospital only do sweeps when the baby is engaged. My ds didn't engage and this one isn't either. I am thinking about trying sex but my husband isn't keen. Given I have spd and can't move easily I do see his point. he means it in a caring way not a cold way. Just find it frustrating that normal life is on hold now. Keep us posted, if sex works than I will definitely be giving it a go!

hartmel · 16/10/2014 16:21

How are you supposed to have sex when you have pelvic gridle pain?
Last time I DTD with DH the next day I could barely walk (we took it very easy) Grin and since then (weekend) I have every night contractions, back pain and sometimes period type pain. Baby has moved down and with every move feels like water is going to break any sec!

Think- maybe we will have our baby the same day! Smile

duvetfan · 16/10/2014 16:25

Hartmel I have no idea how I will manage sex with spd but I am desperate and will try anything there must be a way (so bloody unromantic!).

hartmel · 16/10/2014 16:35

Duvet- to be honest that day I felt great and was even in the mood but then the next day. Ouch!!! Only thing that has helped was a nice warm/hot bath! Grin

duvetfan · 16/10/2014 16:57

Well I may hold off until I am even more desperate. Smile I do like the sound of the bath though. Maybe see if I can order clary sage oil and try a bath instead!

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 16/10/2014 17:11

Right, in the name of science I shall attempt to DTD this evening - DH willing of course. Eek we might Hartmel!!

hartmel · 16/10/2014 17:24

Well have for the last hour about every 3-6 min contractions. Pretty painful and take my breath away.
Maybe my gut feeling is coming true. Had a feeling since 20 week scan that baby will arrive either oct 15 or 16.. (Live in America and we have now 11:22 am. So still have all day Grin)
Had to ask DH to come home from work as I couldn't carry DS the stairs down. Or even take care of him today!
My mom is mad at me as she and SIL wanted to come over for a visit but I'm in no mood for visitors but she doesn't understand that Smile

duvetfan · 16/10/2014 17:31

hartmel that sounds promising. I will keep my (jealous) fingers crossed for you. keep us posted!

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 16/10/2014 17:34

Ooh Hartmel dont be having this baby before me now! It all sounds so promising - hope things progress for you.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 16/10/2014 21:07

How are you getting on Hartmel?

hartmel · 17/10/2014 01:03

Still having contractions but further apart..
Saw the doctor, he said the cervix is closed Confused but had a couple contractions while seeing him and he said he will not be surprised if baby arrives before the weekend.

I don't know if he tried to sweep but since I'm home, I feel very uncomfortable and the contractions are stronger. Still further apart.

Tried going for a walk with DS but after 2 min went inside as I had down there..

devoncreamtea · 17/10/2014 08:26

Hope everything is getting going for you now hartmel

Anything to report anyone? I had sweep yesterday, didn't really realise how much hope I'd pinned on it until it didn't work! Absolutely nothing afterwards - no show, no cramps nothing. I am airtight!! Dr said cervix central coming forward, 1 -2 dilated, but not that stretchy and 2cms thick - she did manage to go in for a sweep, but I just don't think it is ready. Baby low and I think got a bit lower after.

just feeling tired, grumpy and upset now - have induction booked.

Hope others are feeling more positive than me! I'm sure good vibes help the birth hormones, must try to shift mood today...

fox if you read this, hoping your little one is on the mend.

hartmel · 17/10/2014 16:07

It is so frustrating.. Was in pain a lot before I went to bed could not sleep. Finally at 2 am I fell asleep, woke up with only back pain. Otherwise everything has died down..

I'm so tired already.. Didn't experience this with my first. It is now 5 days on and of contractions! False hopes.

tomanyanimals · 17/10/2014 17:17

I went horse riding when I went overdue certain,y got me going last time have warned dh that if I go overdue this time horse shall be brought out for a gentle walk so I can get this one going.

duvetfan · 17/10/2014 18:15

Fox I hope everything is ok.
Hartmel sorry its all slowed down for you (unless you are currently in labour, in which case yipee)
Devon- I am 40+1 and nothing beyond the odd period style cramps. So excited yesterday by my dodgy tummy but it amounted to nothing...On the plus side, a friend who was due a few days ago had her baby yesterday. A wee boy- delighted for her.

devoncreamtea · 17/10/2014 18:48

ahh! At least someone's had a baby!!

hartmel v much hoping you are labouring away...I had a long on off bit with my last birth, very annoying, I sympathise.

hartmel · 17/10/2014 20:04

No baby. No contraction! Just feel so sick to my stomach! Heart palpitation (didn't had that problem in this pregnancy)
Everything down below just hurts. Feel pretty bruised up.
My doctor checked yesterday for infection.
DH stayed home work today, so I can rest..

I wish there would be a zipper at the cervix you could open. Grin I'm so fed up! I hope it won't be another week. I really hope my lo will be here latest by Sunday evening.

devoncreamtea · 17/10/2014 22:07

Oh no, sounds crappy. Rest up and have a cosy weekend - it won't be long!

Fissawissa · 18/10/2014 05:19

Well baby Fissa arrived yesterday morning at 06.59! Was a very long drawn out process - 2 sweeps, 2 times to be induced that didn't happen & the end result a healthy boy born with just gas & air and weighing 10lb 6oz!
Will be back on soon to tell you all.
Hope more baby's come soon!

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hartmel · 18/10/2014 06:25

Congrats fissa! Enjoy your little one! And he sure has a good weight..

Nothing happening at this end

duvetfan · 18/10/2014 09:03

Fiss that's wonderful news. Big congratulations. Smile
Nothing happening here. I am only 2 days over but it feels like months. Angry

Errrr2012 · 18/10/2014 09:08

Congrats fissa!! And much respect over 10lb on just gas n air!!!! That's nearly double the weight of my DD! Hope you're recovering well x