DQ and george: you are both my saviours i have ordered the "muti" stick along with vast quantities of "preggie pops drops" and other goodies from that great site. thnks to both of you for helping me out. i'll let you know if its any good. i have actually been sick less this week, although i still occasionally have bad moments - so touch wood, i am hoping it is easing off... dont want to speak to soon.
cadmum - i know it is weird, despite all the puking, my bump is big - it is just the rest of me that seems to be suffering... skin, filthy stinking cold etc...
i have full admiration for all you 2nd/3rd/4th timers - dont know how any of you cope with kids and pregnancy - it is bad enough trying to cope with a full-time job, which ends at 6pm, - kids are 24/7 with no lunch break! so hats off to nemo, cadmum, yingers, dqueen and J&BM and friz. dont worry about occasionally losing your cool, i am sure you are all wonderful mums.
munz - i can see why you would be upset by the porn/bondage thing right now. maybe you should talk to him about it, in a non-confrontational way if poss.