JM - get ur DH to swtich trades/corps! lol, mine was v v lucky in iraq, (althou we did have to pay £30 a month on his phone card each month) but then he had an extra 3 hours of calls on top of the normal allowance - and as he was in the office he could ring me twice a week for about half hour each, and his mum as well once a week normally, also as it was office email/MSN was good, he was on there a lot esp if he didn't have any work. is afgan 3 months? still hoping DH will be down graded but he recons when march comes he's gonna tell them he's fine so he can go - ours will be 6 months def they recon, on the ground witht eh infantry boys such a worry as in iraq he was in shaiber so for him it was more like a holiday with the bar and facilities etc. even thou the sun newspaper decided to splash the camp across the centre pages with pics of the main gate and guard shift changes
u know u two this is the exact discussion I was having with DH last night - about how crap the army is and pay etc.. but at the end of the day we have a lovely house (no way we'd afford anything on civvy street) every things our own etc. we don't really want for much, so in short do I give up this lifew style to have a DH home 24/7 or do I let it be put up with the crappy cirumstances to continue with the life we have? besides which in his words - what other job pays him to run about with a gun? - go and see the world, and pays him regardless of wheather he's there or not. it has good points and bad - but as u say we knew the life style when we married em! lol -I get so with the new wives/g'fs who say leave the army or leave me I hate it - well u blooming well knew didn't u why marry them! - my answer is always army first, then the bean then me on DH's prority list. anyhow, hopefully we'll get posted to the signal school so an hour from my mum instead of a whole nuvver country! - wales is a nuvver country right?
rom - how r u hon? i'm more positive now, it's mainly when DH isn't here I'm really missing him and down etc - althou was mad yesterday when he said about the state of the house as if being PG isn't enough hard work! lol.