right then caught up,
george - I feel the same as u wiht money next year - thats why i'm trying to pay off my argos account etc for b4 baby comes so we can save that money - i've already switched to pay and go, cut the food bill down and contemplating getting rid of sky, switched from BGAS and the internet/phone provider etc. so, hopefully those savings should help?? (fingers crossed) thats why we're hoping DH is promoted - then we'll only be short of about £300 after tax credits/benifits so I can do a little job 16 hours or something after maternity pay's stopped. althou the boss has asked I come in here still - 2 mornings in the office and 3 at hom (so only 1 morning of child care) 20 hrs per week, depends on what he's gonna offer me and if it works out we'll be better off finacially. at ur 11 days to go!
rom - will check me books for u and come back about the maternity/sick entitlements he can claim back - still on ur behalf.
friz - honney u have far too mcuh energy for 18.5 weeks!
caddy - (((hugs))) keep calm hon we're all here, hope ur DH's flight came in - tell him u want him to take at least 2 weeks off work cos u've had enough and are stressed out etc not to mention feeling second rate etc.. - hopefully he will see how much this is upsetting u and come up with a solution, fingers crossed for today.
sorted things with DH lots of cuddles and affection asked about the money - apparently £20 on troop funds, £10 for a new thermos mug type thingy, £30 paying bay borrowed money/lending it out - (I swear to god they should just have one bank account between the lot of them up there the amount of sharing they do!) then the rest was fags and food - I did notice he'd been smoking proper fags as opposed to the baccy.
still thou he tidyed up for me made me laugh talked about the porn stuff - and he went all coy and embaressed etc, then he brought me dinner - and the one night he shows some intrest in sex with me I was asleep by 9.30! then he moaned a bit that I said no to him, but I said well u've done that to me - but at least he made an effort - hopefully it will stick.