sorry sorry sorry all for being SO AWOL!!!
Have skimmed through but will try and catch up properly later.
I took the boys for 4 nights at a Haven Caravan park in Pagham this week, with my friend and her 2 boys, all in one caravan, EXHAUSTING!! But the boys all had a ball, we went swimming twice, they could ride their bikes everywhere, had days out, worked the arcades, H had football training twice, it was ace for the kids and it was nice to spend some time with my friend. Will deffo go again.
No HC, big bash is end of this month!. have bought a lovely red dress. Think everything is organised, got 65 people coming for a sit down 3 course meal, then a disco etc. Have ordered 65 individual coffee and walnut cupcakes to be displayed on a 7 tier stand for his cake rather than one big one. Excited!
Can't remember if I told you the resolution of the job thing but I ended up staying after they counter offered with a mahoosive pay rise so didn't really think I could say no! Am enjoying work again hurray, and have bought a new car to celebrate. 
Toby is loving school. Had his parents evening before half term and they said how lively he is and happy to talk to anyone and everyone. He seems to have a lot of friends already which is lovely. He is half days till xmas too....They did pick up on his speech however, as he still can't say his 'ls' his 'ks' or 'gs' and will say "let's yoot at this boot mummy" for "Let's look at this book" IYSWIM. I am trying to get him to put his tongue on his top teeth to enunciate an 'l' but the back of throat sounds are harder. I will wait till he is a bit older before exploring therapy...
Harry is great, so tall and still so blonde, loving football and is great at it. I did laugh the other day when he didn't want to wear his liverpool scarf to school because the other boys all support Chelsea, and then heard DH counselling him about a team being for life not just when they are winning etc, ha ha ha ha....
We have 3 Halloween parties this weekend. Phew.
Mum very bad, and not long out of a home.
Keeps attacking Dad and trying to run away and I don't see any of my mum left in there at all any more. Dad has had a hip replacement so he needs alot of support although has got alot of his mobility back already which is great.
Hope you all have a brilliant Halloween, love to everyone, will try not to leave it so long next time. [hgrin] [hgrin] [hgrin]
Bloss
xx