Hello ladies, thought I'd better say hello rather than just lurk all the time
febes - congrats on losing 9lb so quickly - I have decided to start a healthy eating/exercise plan as I tried to get into my keans last weeek after all this hot weather and only 2 of my 4 pairs fitted , and i've got even more pairs that i used to be able to fit in....I am 11st 4 (I got down to 10 4 before christmas) and have a target of 10st.
belgina - if you want to stop dreamfeeding C, I recommend the method I used with DD/DS1. They were bottle-fed (not sure if C is BF or bottle?) but the basic idea is to give them the dreamfeed half an hour earlier than usual, and give them 1oz less than usual (if BF then try and stop sooner). Then if that doesn't affect their morning wakeup, after 3 days, move it another half hour forward and reduce by 1oz. Eventually you are just offering them their bedtime feed and they don't need any extra. With DS once we'd brought it forward to 9.30pm he took an oz and couldn't be bothered with it and still woke up at normal time, so we just stopped it then.
flip - congrats on the house buying - i don't see anything wrong with a head purchase- sounds like it's a very sensible plan for now, and like you say, if it's not a forever home, then sounds like a good move to me. We've decided to put moving plans on hold- with possible redundancies at work, and the fact that if we moved it would be to a forever home that pushes the budget to the limit, it is just too risky.
Tumm- hope DH is on the mend- he's been in the wars a bit lately hasn't he, and I'm sure it's been hard on you being his carer and with 3 young DCs too. Once he's better, you deserve some "me time" and a reward. I went to the spa again the other week, and it was loverley .
Anyway, better stop typing and get back to work!