I had a bad weekend as my reflaection of a bad week iyswim. DH & I (well me actually) fell out with each other, alot of the bad thinsg that have happened to me in the last 18 months are because of him and i dont need that shit. I just finally looked at what i have been through the last 12 months and i'm suprised i'm not batty . DH cheating twice, a mc, a new pregnancy, Thailand, Norway, Zac trips, SS, i was poorly sick last week too...it just all feels too much.
Ellie - SS came on Friday afternoon - so fast she said, as she had 'important things' to do on Monday and had a spare slot before going home. My Ex referred me, as we have all fallen out (DH removed him from my doorstep) and i refused to be a doormat any longer re Reilly and ASD and needing support from him. Anyway, he started in the referral that DH physically assaulted him and he was concerned for R (DH touched him on the shoulder - SW laughed and police are not concerned (yes he sent them too)). Referral also states i avoid R's dental treatment and have cancelled appointments - i cancelled one as Mimi was ill but attended the following week, and am awaiting hospital referral letter in post. It also said R stays up playing X-rated Xbox games with DH. The only 'bad' game DH owns is Call of Duty, which is shooting and is NEVER played until sleep time when dc absent. We are very strict on DVD watching and i dont allow power rangers!! He rung SS 3 times trying to get them to see me - SW said its funny how he had extra problems to report and she could see straight away the referrla was vindictive. She is writing a report this week, and sending Ex a letter saying no concerns and that it basically was a waste of her time. SW said children are very happy and that i do alot for/with them, and that im doing all ASD things correctly.
I am beyond mad at Ex, all this cos i asked for help. He sent me a slocitors letter full of lies, saying i asked him to take r to school and pick him up PMSL - i live 2 mins from school and go daily for ds2, why would i ask for that? . Its just hilarious - i could manage better and i'm without law degree ffs.
This last few months, well 12 months really, has been too much now. I refuse to go through one thing more. I'm going to take Ex to court. DH puts one foot wrong again and i will wear his balls for earrings. Also pissed off as DHs parents want to 'borrow' some money and i just think what a cheek, we are supporting my 3dc, zac, our house, 1 car 1 van, paying a labourer at work etc.
Anyway i think thats my whinging finished