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January 2008 Shiny New Year Toddlers - Oh for a minutes peace!!

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Lilyloo · 04/06/2009 20:02

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madmouse · 10/07/2009 09:06

Poor JKS I hope it passes soon - don't worry about T having tv day he will live and probably enjoy it - have a rest.

Hurrah for H and some healthy proud mummy feelings

Was in office at 7.30 this morning having woken sick with stress at 5! Am meant to be on reduced duties as mentally not well but colleague on hols and so many things to do. Feeling calm-ish atm just trying to do one thing at a time.

Simpson hope you get packing done - relax holiday starts here.

LaT you keep making short comments - hows you doing?

simpson · 10/07/2009 10:13

OMG major panic this morning

Went to get M up to start the day and she had managed to get her knee wedged between bars of cot

For ages I could not free her and she was screaming by then as it was hurting

Was just having visions of having to saw cot when I freed her but it must have hurt her as she was shaking for ages afterwards

Madmouse - packing going okish. Hopefully will finish it when J at school.

JKS - hope you feel better soon!!

Got girlie night out, can't wait! But can't drink much or stay out too late as setting of earlyish tom.

Lilyloo · 10/07/2009 20:28

Simps have lovely hol !! Poor M

JKS hope the sickness gone !!

MMouse hope the day wasn't too stressful , you have got enough to worry about at the moment. Lovely to see a few more posts from you

Thanks for all comments about H! i agree JKS and i am very proud.
Off to mil this weekend as dc's having some professional photos done with their cousins for sil wedding pressie. She lives in Aus and hasn't even met M! Then off to dp's nannas 90th party Sunday.

Have good weekend all

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Gingeme · 11/07/2009 13:19

Afternoon ladies feeling a little better today though it still feels like my head is full of cotton wool Edward is still very poorly and actually lost his little voice yesterday but he has been doing very well with his toilet training and is enjoying doing his 'tinkles'
Happy holidays Simpson
Have a fab weekend Lillyloo . Sounds busy.
How are you feeling JKS ? Better I hope.
We had parents evening Thursday for David. Hes doing brilliantly and we met his new year 1 teacher. She seems very nice
Well off for some lunch now.
Take care all xxx

Gingeme · 11/07/2009 17:34

Me again a proud Mummy moment coming up. Edward just did his first poo on the toilet x

JustKeepSwimming · 12/07/2009 10:16

Yey Gingeme
hopefully he's cracked it now.

feeling on and off still, mostly ok then stomach will remind me i'm not quite right yet.

Had orchestra concert last night, went well, but could have done with an earlier night. will have to get some the next few days.

Got both sets of grandparents coming next weekend (plus my niece as she's staying with my parents for a couple of weeks, she's at school in France and my sis & BIL don't have enough holiday to cover hers so she comes over to improve her English too) so have lots to do before then.

have got a new bed coming on Wed so need to clear the junk baby room before then....

T happy with his newest toy - a cardboard box with the front cut out to make a tv

H still sleeping lots - no change there.

sorry, hello everyone, not managed personals, hope you are all having a good weekend

Gingeme · 12/07/2009 10:23

Morning ladies.
Hi JKS glad your a little bit better. I still have a raw throat and a stuffed head
I guess everyone else must be enjoying the sunshine
Had a clear out of the boys toys yesterday. Put it on Freecycle at 12pm a guy come to collect it at 2 . We are getting Edward a new toy today for being so good on the toilet . I ordered him a travel seat today too ready for when he goes out and about without his nappy.
I am holding a jewellery party this evening. Just hope some people turn up
Right off to Tesco now.
Hope your all well x

LaTrucha · 12/07/2009 20:12

Hi all -

Sorry I've not been on for a while.

It's my birthday today. We had to cancel the picnic we had planned as it was forecast rain. The rain didn't turn up but really it was far too windy here. DH, Sabela and I went out for lunch which was lovely. Followed by a big and not entirely comfortable heart to heart between DH and I. Not exactly birthday material, but needed.

Well done Edward!

Hope Gingeme and JKS feel better soon.

JustKeepSwimming · 12/07/2009 20:18

Happy Birthday LaT

(hope you and DH are ok now?)

G - you are so good at clearouts, i need your help here!
Good luck with the party

I think i am all better now thanks

Just need some good nights sleep - have got a late night tues (orchestra social bbq here) - but other than that should get a few in over the next few days

Gingeme · 12/07/2009 22:04

Happy Birthday LaTrucha I hope things are ok with DH ?
Thankyou JKS 4 more stars on Edwards chart today but 1 pooh in his pants which I think is because we had people here so he was a bit distracted
Sorry but a rant coming on. I booked a lady to do a jewellery party this evening. I invited quite a few people of which some told me they couldn't come. It was booked for 7 pm. I got a few nibbles into bowls and put the lemonade in the fridge and the boys were all playing nicely. 3 ladies turned up at 7.10 oohed and aahed at the stuff. One more lady turned up. That was it fortunately 2 ladies bought some stuff. An hour later they went. I feel so bloody let down by all the others who didn't bother to get in touch to let me know. The lady must have though I was Billy no mates
Still I got a couple of t shirts , she does knock off designer gear, for my big boys and a pair of sunglasses for me
And breathe

Gingeme · 13/07/2009 13:37

Hello where is everyone? Has someone started a new thread or something? xx

FairySparkles · 13/07/2009 13:58

Hi all - haven't been on for ages as we've been on hol's! Not even gonna attempt to catch up on all the posts - waaaaay too many!!!!

Just briefly read this page - happy birthday LaTrucha - glad you had a nice day in the end!

Gingeme - poor you with unreliable friends - know the feeling!!!
Well done Edward tho!!

Been contemplating potty training ells - who else has had any success so far????
Also, is it just my daughter that seems to be turning into a stroppy little monster?? The word "no" seems to be her favourite word at the minute and she is really begining to perfect the art of tantruming! - next dc is due in 10 weeks and I'm starting to panic!! Ells was an angel when we planned this next one .......

Oooo - has nicky had her baby???

LaTrucha · 13/07/2009 14:05

Hi all

Gingeme - sorry you didn't have a nice time. Well done Edward - there are bound to be some mistakes!

FairySparkle - we've had a phase of that which thankfully didn't last long. I'm sure it will come back!

JKS - hope you got your rest. I didn't. Everyone else was asleep, but not me .

Thansk for birthday wishes. I did have a really nice day. I think DH and I are ok. We were just drifting apart a little I think.

We're off to see my Dad for a couple of weeks tomorrow. I've got to do the packing and I'm shattered! I wonder if DH will noticeif I don't iron his shirts

LaTrucha · 13/07/2009 14:05

Hi all

Gingeme - sorry you didn't have a nice time. Well done Edward - there are bound to be some mistakes!

FairySparkle - we've had a phase of that which thankfully didn't last long. I'm sure it will come back!

JKS - hope you got your rest. I didn't. Everyone else was asleep, but not me .

Thansk for birthday wishes. I did have a really nice day. I think DH and I are ok. We were just drifting apart a little I think.

We're off to see my Dad for a couple of weeks tomorrow. I've got to do the packing and I'm shattered! I wonder if DH will noticeif I don't iron his shirts

JustKeepSwimming · 13/07/2009 14:11

Lol G i don't think so - just busy i guess.

grr re your jewellery party glad it went ok in the end.

i am learning that lots of people out there are rude by my standards - they don't reply to things or let you know if they're coming or not.
some just don't show or others (even worse sometimes) just turn up when you think they aren't coming, grrrr.

right at work so best go, speak later

Gingeme · 13/07/2009 16:53

Exactly JKS
Ah well on a more positive note Edward is doing brill on the toilet just one accident yesterday. Going to take him to playgroup with his pants on tommorrow and see how he goes.
George is just a bum really. So sneaky but cheeky with it. His new words for the week is 'bum bum' wonder where he got that from !
My throat is still sore. I have bought some Corvonia throat spray which numbs your throat and has anti septic in it. Works sort of.
Right off to make some dinner now.
Will try to pop back later. x

Lilyloo · 13/07/2009 20:33

Happy belated birthday LaT. Hope you get to spend some quality time with your dad. How did he get on with his scan ?

Gingeme grr at friends not turning up. It does really get my goat when people are so rude. Did any of them mnetion it when they saw you today ?

JKS wow sounds busy. Is the new bed for them or the boys ?

Fairy did you have good hol ? Yes tantrums are just starting to creap in here too!!

Photoshoot bit of disaster. L was tired so took her a while to come round. Initial group photos i had to hold her so she was pulling my top down etc Then just as all kids about to have their group photos M falls and bangs her face on chair Hence lot's of crying and refused to sit on photo. Managed to get a couple of her with dummy and blanket in with tear stained and bruised cheek!
Dp's nans party went well though and everyone had nice time.
Not much chance to be around during day now as dp changing jobs and on gardening leave for next 3 weeks so don't want him to think i spend my days on here
Off camping this weekend so trying to get sorted for that this week. Still to get pressies for teachers too!

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JustKeepSwimming · 13/07/2009 21:32

evening all

Fairy - sorry xposted before - well it took me ages to type my post! H can be stroppy too - but it's hard to tell amongst the tiredness tbh. T (3yrs) is definitely able to be stubborn and a right s*d! think we missed the Terrible Two's but are having an Irritating Interesting Three's

Yes Nicky had her baby:
"Not caught up but to let you all know little boy Noah James born 29th June 7lb11oz labour 4hrs 40 mins in total completely mad - no pain relief so different to 26hr ordeal last time. back home within 3 hours all a bit surreal. Back to 3 hour feeds cracked nipples etc etc, seems only yesterday was charlie - she seems like enormous lilliput baby by comparison."

LaT - not surprising that you and dh may have drifted somewhat with recent times tbh. hope you can both stay closer from now on.
hey, you must be near me in essex now - how long are you staying? will you want to get away? saarfend can be a fun day out

G - lol at 'bum' hope your throat improves soon.

Lily - have fun camping. haven't sorted anything for pre-school teachers, think i will leave it this year, then plan better next year when T will be leaving them.
sorry to hear about the photoshoot - hopefully some will some out ok!
new bed is for grandparents - though my mum has irritated me (again) and isn't coming think she may have ishoos with my PIL, will try and get to the bottom of it with my dad this weekend. anyway, he's not long had his hip replaced so needs a bed not a mattress on the floor anyway, so not a wasted purchase.
was going to get H a bed soonish - then found out that Mothercare don't make the same bed as T anymore
think i may wait a bit longer and go for 2 singles that can turn into bunkbeds and get rid of T's current bed instead (any suggestions?).
not planning on putting H into a bed for a bit yet although he loves T's! won't need the cot for anyone else for a good while yet, lol!

right, should be heading off to bed soon, gawd knows what time T will be up....

Gingeme · 14/07/2009 12:39

Afternoon ladies
Lillyloo I don't see any of the ladies till tommorrow so well see what they say then.
JKS we had exactly the same with David. Thought we had missed the terrible two as he was so good but soon paid for it when he was three
George is throwing some strops too now. Yesterday I picked him up on to my lap and he threw himself back and head butted my noes My eyes are a bit dark today and I have a front lobe headache . Just great with a sore throat ! Actualy that is a bit better today
On a much happier note though Edward spent 2 and a half hours at playgroup today DRY came home and happily did a wee my clever boy
Fairy where did you go ? We only have 4 weeks till Tenerife and I'm stressed already
Well I think thats about it for now. xx

JustKeepSwimming · 14/07/2009 13:22

Had a major poo incident with T - just as i collected him from pre-sch. all the way home on the buggy board 'i have a poo mummy' nice.

at least he knew he had a poo i guess....

G - well done to Edward. have been headbutted by H recently too. he also could be a boxer as he has a wicked right hook!

got the orchestra coming here for our end of term social bbq later - only hope the rain holds off, though we can come indoors, will just be more fun outside.

Have to try and get us organised to collect some card-making bits from a shop (i ordered last week but haven't had a chance to get there yet) - before H wants to go back to sleep.

bit as my new HV - who is also a friend,was a friend/fellow-mum at the bf group before i knew she was even an HV - wants to come round and chat to me tomorrow, in a 'professional' capacity. said H would be asleep but said she wanted to talk to me anyway, about all H's stuff i guess, but my usual HV approach is bugger off i'm fine thanks. but hey, a chat over a cuppa should be ok.....just found myself being on edge over the phone and thought, uh oh, this has changed now she's 'official'.....

madmouse · 15/07/2009 08:57

Hi all

Just quickly popping in before starting a mad day at work again. Hope everyone ok? LAT any chance to chat soon or no Internet in Essex - thinking of you.

Hope Simpson is having a good time - On Sunday she said she was enjoying herself and the weather was good.

Nathan had a visit from his special teacher yesterdya and she is very happy with his development - he is developing very normally judged by the things he can do. She keeps charts of his gross motor skills (well they are behind obviously but we know that so that does not really count), fine motor skills (surprisingly good considering he uses one hand!), self help skills, social skills, play skills etc all on track.

She brought a shape sorter in the shape of a yellow bus. Love at first sight, he has refused to let it out of his sight since!! Has refused to use the shape sorter but has been driving it non stop! Even had his nap while possessively holding it and started driving it as soon as his eyes were open before he was properly awake. And wailed when he was told it was NOT coming to bed. Bless him! His teacher is allowing him to keep it for the holidays but I have a feeling I better try and find one somewhere!

JustKeepSwimming · 15/07/2009 09:55

Madmouse - lol at the bus! T had to take 2 plastic ladies (that are for the bath) and bath toy that is now apparently an 'ivory tower' to bed last night...after a few trips back upstairs to find the ladies who were getting lost in his bed, we agreed they could stand on the headboard bit instead.... &
H loves 2 teddies and they have to be in bed and normally he is attached to one when i get him up.

So glad N is doing so well - all your hard work paying off!

and a little lol at 'no internet in Essex', it's not the 3rd world over here you know?!?!!

orch social went well so that's another thing off my list....

madmouse · 15/07/2009 11:57

dh reported difficulty in getting son out to child minder WITHOUT bus this morning lol

Gingeme · 15/07/2009 14:00

Afternoon.
Oh madmouse he is just so cute isn't he ? Lovely Nathan
JKS did you eat all the doritos before anyone turned up x
Had another proud moment this afternoon when I picked a dry Edward from pre school then he came home and did another poo on the toilet. By George he's got it Mustn't get too blaze about it though or he'll slip.
Right I can hear George shouting from the bedroom now
Take care all xx

Lilyloo · 15/07/2009 16:54

dilemma

LOL forgot to say i was front page of local newspaper least week. Dispute over payments from local spar shop.
A guy turns up today from magazine wants to pay me for an interview

MM
you are def going to have to get a bus

Well done Edward

Oh dear JKS about poo episode , how did barbecue go ?

Heavy rain all day Friday just when we will be erecting tent etc.
I want to go Sat and forego Fri night and stay until Mon dp says no can't plan around weather

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