ria i am totally with you on DH's and pain problems, DH has been in "serious" amounts of pain for well over a year (maybe more im not sure) and they are farting about with his treatment, saying they dont want to take the kidney out cos the function is reasonable, yet it REALLY hurts him.
yet when ive had two days that ive been unable to use my arm (which the brusing is getting bigger still ) ive had no help, and hes been really reluctant when i have asked. MEN!
jammy i would def say my depression got ten times worse if the house was untidy, so its completly reasonable for you to expect your dh to give more of a sh*t, but cos its not important to him he thinks your making a big deal out of it.
have you sat him down when kids in bed and explained that when the house is broken and messy it makes you feel broken and messy in your head. thats how i explained it to my DH, and he did actually try to help then.
happy birthday bumper!
WB foxy glad you had a good time
hurrah for bumble! 8 hours woo!
i think thats it, gosh you been chatty today
couldnt go docs today cos DH kidney to bad to leave the house, or have the kids and it was too stressful to go with the kids.
i now feel sick, dizzy and off colour, brusing getting bigger.. i think maybe the hole isnt healing, or im reopening it by lifting kids/doing housework/etc etc
on a good note, toms seems to have potty trained himself this evening.
ive run out of disposables, and he wont wear ellens cloth ones. so he has been using the potty and no accidents yet, i think he was being stubborn.