Thanks derlor, yes, it's just when they are crying for hours it's at it's very worst and you think it's never going to stop. That's what it was like earlier, but DH cooked me dinner and we just had a lovely evening and it didn't involve watching the TV!
I'm going to take some more of that vile more milk tincture - it tastes like pureed celery
Thanks so much for being so nice everyone.
TA, you are doing a great job. My colleague always used to say "wednesday night, weekend's in sight"!