Grrrrrrrrrrrr!! @ your DH, Katy ..... vent away ......
If we're on the subject of "venting" - Can I do some to??
This just totally sums up my MIL.....
She came to DD1's Pre-School Summer Fayre with us yesterday. she spent the majority of the time just sort of "wandering off" like she was in some kind of world of her own .... she didn't help with the children AT ALL. She kind of took a vague passing interest in them, but would just wander off without notice - so we can't leave any of them with her cos we can't guarentee that they will still be with her when we come back, iyswim!!? DD3 was spectacularly sick all over herself & me ...... MIL's reaction: SHE LAUGHED!!!!!!!! FFS!!!!!!! DH asked her to keep an eye on DD's 1 & 2 while he nipped home to get a change of clothes for P & I (just round the corner) I ended up having to look after them while completely covered in sick while DD3 bawled her eyes out in the sling ..... ..... I have NO IDEA what MIL was doing. I asked her to take DD1 to have her face painted so she joined the queue and then before I know it, DD1 is wandering towards me, having been left completely on her own by MIL who is looking at the cake stall across the other side of the hall!!!!!!!!!!?
She then joined us for a little trip to a nearby town & promptly met some of her friends in a coffee shop. So I was left juggling feeding, screaming baby & over-excited toddler (DD2) while DH went to buy a DVD with DD1 and her Birthday tokens....
Then when we dropped her off at home, DH asked when she & FIL would be taking the children (DD's 1 & 2) for the day. Her reply: "Did we offer? I don't remember offering." Well, you didn't, but we just wondered if you were ever actually going to offer. "Oh, well I'm not sure. We're very busy."
Just completely sums her up imho.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
They invited us over for tea this PM. We're not going.