Evening all! Starting from where I left off as usual...
jj sorry your bf journey seems to be coming to an end :( it sounds like you've come to terms with it ok though
Baby proofing: no need here, he doesn't really move much. I'm not sure how to or even if to encourage crawling or anything because he just gets frustrated. Plus he seems to usually be eating, being cleaned up or asleep!
mm1 I'm sure someone will snap you up soon, if they've any sense :)
yw Eric has the same surname as his dad, because we probably will marry at some point, and I will change my surname to his. Yay for the bear sleeping through again!
Glad cc is sorted now horsey must be a weight off your mind
Hugs izzy sounds like a particularly bad night last night again for you :( sorry to hear about your day from hell too, what has happened?
Oh lily it's so unfair for you to have so much shit to get through to have o have Leo's surname :( I will be popping a cork when you give us the news that its all sorted :D
Sounds like success at the cm's pass :D
chasing he is doing all of this for attention, he really is. As someone (can't remember) else said, he knows you are moving on and he doesn't fucking like it. So he looked good today... ON PURPOSE, most likely cos you look good when he sees you. As detective says, he will not get more contact going to court, he would get less. When you're ready you'll find someone else, and even if not time does help and you won't always feel this way. He is a cunting fucking arse wandering twatty gimp flavoured dicknut. If I wanted you to go so close I'd tell you to piss in his shoes, but you are 110% well and truly shot of that one. Have yourself a glass of wine and smile a big fuck of smile because you are free, and you are winning :) it can only get better. Huge fuck off hugs! I would definitely only talk to him regarding o if possible, it's what my mum is doing with her pretending to hang himself xp, if he attempts to text her or contact in any way not regarding elyza she just ignores him.
Woohoo for crawling/wriggling pp, hope you do get some rest.
Glad you all had a good quiche meet :)
I think I might try to move e's bed time earlier in the hope that we can go to two naps not three. All the feeding, napping and cleaning the mess after feeding and bottles and making bottles and preparing food and all the rest of it mean I rarely leave the house and I am going slowly insane. I need to do something with his routine so we aren't stuck in Groundhog Day and just feeding and sleeping all the while. Does it sound feasible to do both lunch and tea before their respective bottles? Is it worth a go? With having it so spaced I am frequently having to wake him for the 3pm bottle and by doing so he has to sleep again before bed. How does this look, providing he complies?
7am bottle
8am breakfast
11:30-as close to 12 as I can get it-lunch
Straight after (usually an hour after the start of lunch)- bottle
4-4:30 tea bottle straight after
Bottle at 7 then bed.
He always sleeps after brekkie, about 9:30-10:30/11 and was hoping I could get him to go to about 2 then get up at about 4 and that's it till bed. Should I try this or leave it as it is? I guess if I try it and he drinks above 20oz and sleeps through still and gains weight it's fine, but if I try it and he wakes in the night, doesn't take enough milk or stops gaining then its not working... I just figured this way I can manage all the meals and all four bottles are still offered so I'm not 'dropping a bottle'