Nope, don't worry vq :) I do everything by the book and have been over everything with the paed the last visit. And the one before that. And the one before that. The area has had a rsv epidemic, and a flu epidemic, and a gastro epidemic, but we at least avoided that one. I actually don't need to take reposnibility for all this, but that is what we do as mums. I know that if I hadn't put DD1 in creche we wouldn't have had to deal with this, but as you said it is far better to deal with everything now than later.
Every week early in the week I start checking the weather forecast to plan a weekend away. Since new year I have been saying the next decent weeekend we will go somewhere, give us all a change and a break, and we just haven't had a decent weekend when we have been well enough. We are all at breaking point. Even the bloody pets are miserable.
Though I have to say DD1 is in perfect health at the moment, other than her night time coughing which the paed says will go when the weather gets better.
We just need a break, and I need to see the sea, or the mountains. I get like this from time to time, even from before I had children. Next place we live will be closer to the sea. We'e not going to stay in this area forever.