thanks all re the congrats for F! and thank you tons too
for the moral support with it last week. It really really helped to be able to come on here and moan about it and get a pep talk to keep going 
tis funny mlic, i think you knew all along that he was ready even tho you don't really know him, iyswim?! crazy how much we've learnt about each other and our children on this thread isn't it?
we're ready with the helplines and pompoms for when you 'do' L next chul
altho it didn't totally go to plan due to putting it on hold for a few days after his sickness bug, i do rate the '1 day' method we used. i would do it again next time with A.
Sounds like a crappy night woodlands. bet you felt like dumping J on your friends the next morning at 7am 
oh, i'm not at all shy with the olive oil when i cook italian. i properly glug it in like it's water
banana pancakes recipe purlease chul. in fact any banana recipes are always welcome over here! do you freeze the batter or the 'made' pancakes? if the latter, how do you defrost and warm them? what do you have them with?