Good morning 
Dippy, my dh wouldn't even entertain getting the snip so good on you for getting yours to go through with it! I am in the definintely no more babies camp too 
Dooby, sorry to hear about your job. I know things are tough in the current climate, but hopefully they will find you something you enjoy just as much as your previous job.
I work in paeds oncology and we have psychologists/counsellors, some of whom are funded through charities. May be worth looking into that avenue, I know clic sargent fund posts so maybe worth contacting somewhere like that?
Oooggs, hope the party went well and James had a lovely day yesterday x
SPB, hope dd isn't too poorly with the pox x
Lovely to see you NL and weeonion 
I have the joy of a children's party this afternoon, it is one of F's school friends and she is very excited about it!