sorry to hear all the bad news
I hope everyone is as ok as they can be
Bramshott, I've been thinking bdays too but have no clue what to get ds for a present, which is so sad at the grand old age of 4! I think being the 2nd child means you have lots from the first child already, even though he has an older sister.
The one thing he has mentioned a few times I can't get. He wants figures from a cartoon he loves but it's one of those that isn't popular so all that I can find is a dvd of it.
Inspiration for presents would be fab.
Now if it were dd I could find lots to get for her, but she'll have to wait til June 