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That's not my SHINEY...Yes it fucking is now get over here!

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Jaquelinehyde · 25/09/2010 16:01

First ever attempt at a Shiney thread...I apologise for the swearing in title, I just coudn't help it. Point all complainers in my direction.

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bellavita · 02/10/2010 15:00

Hello Smile

Have set up a game with Vinny - four on the go now.

Shiney, DS2 used to have terrible meltdowns and throw things (this week he has had two mini meltdowns) - he is 11 next month! I put his behaviour down to being tired this week though. It seems he is also playing at being the class clown again. He said to me that his teacher had put a comment in his planner yesterday - it was a fucking two page bleeding essay Blush on how his thoughtlessness had yet again led to someone being hurt. But he insisted that he wasn't the only one involved (my friend last night confirmed this) but he has taken most of the rap for it because DS2 being DS2 is labelled! >

I have got my outfit for November....

OuchPassVodka · 02/10/2010 15:01

mittz mn has been playing up for me and the little post button wouldnt do anything. i though i'd broken it with serious mning yesterday.

I have just traumatised someone. whoops.

TrillianAstra · 02/10/2010 15:14

What your outfit Bella?

mittz · 02/10/2010 15:20

Yeah, DS gets into trouble sometimes just because he is in the vicinity of trouble and louder than others Hmm.. that's not to say he can't cause it all by himself but, he is magnetised to it... TBH he is like his Dad in a lot of ways.. likes going against the crowd and then whinging being unhappy when the crowd wonders why you are plowing into them.

Can we see link to outfit Bella?

mittz · 02/10/2010 15:20

Yeah, DS gets into trouble sometimes just because he is in the vicinity of trouble and louder than others Hmm.. that's not to say he can't cause it all by himself but, he is magnetised to it... TBH he is like his Dad in a lot of ways.. likes going against the crowd and then whinging being unhappy when the crowd wonders why you are plowing into them.

Can we see link to outfit Bella?

BitOfFun · 02/10/2010 15:23

Oh no Oops, that wasn't you pissing about last night, was it?

OuchPassVodka · 02/10/2010 15:31

? what do you mean bof?
got in about 11:30pm last night i think. and then read some threads.

I am trying to discover the motivation to move.

post button plays up sometimes, rebooting tends to help it.

BitOfFun · 02/10/2010 15:32

Someone got upset on the shitlist thread by a newbie randomly insulting people, but I assumed it was someone just larking about and not to be taken seriously.

VinegarTits · 02/10/2010 15:37

i am meant to be going out tonight but got no babysitter, ex has offered to come round to mine and look after ds2, what do we reckon? shall i let him? seems awful friendly lately Hmm

bellavita · 02/10/2010 15:38

Vinny, I wondered how long it would be.. Grin

Penny's Party Dress - I have it in black, comes to just above the knee and it hides my tum. Will wear with sheer tights.

VinegarTits · 02/10/2010 15:43

ignore last post, its sorted, have discussed it with ds1 and he said 'he can pissoff (my ex) hes not coming her, i will babysit for you' Grin

no idea what you mean bella

VinegarTits · 02/10/2010 15:44

ooooo Bella that dress is fab! Envy

jetcat · 02/10/2010 15:44

afternoonSmile

Ouch - what mishchief have you been up to?

Bella - whats your name on WWF - i am very easy to beat play, am very envious of Bof using all her letters!

Shiney - i had a similar thing with mini on our return from hospital, though not on the same level. She keeps saying she wants to go back, as there were so many toys - i can see her chucking herself down the stairs to go backHmm

Well, i have made a decision re going to my sisters at the end of the month. I have been chatting with foster mum, and given the circs down there at the moment, we are going down to stay for a few days at half term. For those who havent saw my other thread, my younger brother has just been diagnosed with manic depression, and they are all really stuggling at the moment, as to keep him out of hospital he has to have someone with him all the time.

SO, we are going down, so that grandparents can take the girls out (and have a break) and I can stay with bro. Its all so heartbreakingSad Please please help me to stay strong for them cos i cant fall apart as wellBlush

bellavita · 02/10/2010 15:50

TheRealBellavita jet.

Jet, you can/will be strong. You can do it. Your brother is lucky to have such a caring sister.

I am rather chuffed with myself Vinny over the dress. Yay for DS1.

OuchPassVodka · 02/10/2010 15:53

I havent done anything.

although seriously considering going out tonight so that might change.

Now the important question of the day: what do i eat for breakfast?

jetcat · 02/10/2010 15:54

thanks BellaSmile He is only 19, foster mum is in bits, as she has already lost two sons, and sees this as the start of losing her last oneSad

DId you link to your dress? I havent even started to think about what to wearShock I have lost 1 lb though this week, i know its only a pound, but its such a relief to see the scales going down two weeks in a row, rather than creeping up and up like they wereBlush

VinegarTits · 02/10/2010 15:59

Jet you will be fine, you are very strong and supportive Smile

ouch, breakfast? my body would go on strike if i didnt eat until this time of day, you really need to eat properly to get your strength back, so tomorrow, eat breakfast at breakfast time, even if its small and light

mittz · 02/10/2010 16:01

Oh that is lovely Bella and so very much you Smile x

Jet, I don't know if you notice or realise it, but when the going gets a bit rocky, you actually seem to power into a more capable and strong character than you think of yourself.. I think you worry so much about not coping that you don't see your own strengths.

As hard as it was and however you felt inside, you managed the incident with mini Jet every bit as well as Shiney did with Ted, or any of us do. Just too hard on yourself. And your sense of humour really comes through..

I know with your brother the emotional aspect is a hard thing to deal with but have more faith in yourself honey Smile

jetcat · 02/10/2010 16:01

thanks guys - i am determined not to wallow and just plod onSmile I may need the occasional kick up the arse thoughGrin

  • i just used all my letters with bofGrinGrin Probably only because they moreorless spelt the word out on the rack, but still.....
OuchPassVodka · 02/10/2010 16:02

I was asleep at breakfast time vinny.

bellavita · 02/10/2010 16:03

Ouch - can you have some cereal? You really need to eat something.

Jet,http://www.frenchconnection.com/search/keywords+are+pennys+party+dress/pennys%2bparty%2bdress.htm - I bought it in black.

bellavita · 02/10/2010 16:04

oops, I bought it in black

jetcat · 02/10/2010 16:05

awww, thanks MittzBlush My mental health nurse says the same, maybe one day i will start to believe it.

Ouch - breakfastShockGrin

VinegarTits · 02/10/2010 16:06

ouch you been up since 11 and you havent eaten yet, not good

jetcat · 02/10/2010 16:09

Bella - that is stunningSmile You will look so lovely, cant wait to see you! I am thinking of smart trousers for me, as will probably be getting train down on the morning, wont have time to change before we meet.

Forgot to say, ex came this morning to pick the girls up, and refused to come in the houseGrin He stood on the doorstep while junior faffed around getting her things ready. I am assuming he was told about my post on fb thenGrin Still no mention of money though.