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I am not a slut or a whore

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babyicebean · 08/09/2009 00:36

I have a pole in my lounge for exercise, it takes up less room than my airwalker or a bike.

Apparently only whore, sluts and dirty women pole dance.

OK I am not very good yet and I find it all difficult but I want to do it and the himself has no such thoughts other than where he was fitting it.Yes I would like to be able to get off the ground but it will (hopefully) happen eventually.

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mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 18:44

And not being able to ytpe prob makes some people think I'm thick

You tell first AF! I'm neither young nor old.

foofi · 08/09/2009 18:47

It says 35 on your profile

mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 18:48

Oi! I was trying to see how long it would take her to realise that

clumsymum · 08/09/2009 18:49

oh, sooo sorry if I've caused offence.

So that's two ehibitionists then, the OP and mustrunmore.

Which is fine.....

AnyFucker · 08/09/2009 18:49

early 40's

so old enough to be your auntie or your big sister

and I say "be more thoughtful about what you post on your profile...."

< folds arms >

foofi · 08/09/2009 18:49

Sorry - FWIW that's young in my eyes!

luckylady74 · 08/09/2009 18:56

Lap dancing and striptease are good exercise.
I put pole dancing in the same category because they happen in the same place.

Can't you just have some gymnastic bars- my dad had a chin up bar in the garage and we do flips on our garden swing a frame bar.

mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 18:56

Hurray, I'm young

Sorry, thesouthsbelle, we 're all ignoring you... yep, you can learn the basics at home. get a dvd or just copy youtube! But like anything, it helps alot to learn in person iyswim.

Just for you AF, I've put another pic on there for a short while [wink Should be first one, if it loaded ok.

Hardly an exhibitionist. Lots of you lot have photos of yourself on here. In bikinis, god even your wedding photos as thats often a best looking day! Its just showing who you are, like filling in your booklist etc. Jeez, really exhibitionist people like flame even have blogs

mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 18:58

Chin up bars dont really allow you to dance and enjoy the music! And theyre a bit limited in their exercise, unless you get a whole powerstation or something! We have my treadmill too, and I go to the gym every day, usually 1-2 hours.

oneopinionatedmother · 08/09/2009 19:04

I'd like a Pole in my bathroom.

to fit the new one that is.

luckylady74 · 08/09/2009 19:05

I honestly think that just dancing is the way to go. can you imagine when your kids find out that pole dancing only happens in strip clubs? It's just so alien to me- I like exercising and dancing, but the objectification of women is a serious issue that I want my dc to be very clear about where I stand on.

mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 19:12

ok. But when I invert on a pole I feel my abs, my arms, everything working to the max. I do body pump too, and running, but pole quals them. No dancing comes any way near the exercise intensity.

My kids are priority, I am a good parent, they have a realistic, honest upbringing. ds1 knows that people dance on poles for entertainment, but that they should only do it because they enjoy it, and they only use poles for that reason in specially assigned vanues. He also knows that sometimes people do things just because they need the money, and he knows that is wrong, and it is wrong for people to allow that to happen.

thesouthsbelle · 08/09/2009 19:12

ok cool. how ahem does one go about a strip tease then or lap dance?

mustrunmore · 08/09/2009 19:15

Its easier to show you than to explain in words!! But i'm not a stripper, i dont strip on the pole, I dance. I've never ever stripped to music actually.

Basic moves are easy to get the hang of, then you just go with the flow and put them all together. Then you get adventurous, at which point its good to have dh or a friend spotting you, in case you fall off!!!

Rumpel · 08/09/2009 19:19

MUST - I had a pole in the kids playroom until recently. I have done 4 lots of classes for pole dancing and have come to the conclusion I am pants at it and will never improve due to:

getting blisters all the time,
being scared of heights,
being scared of hurting myself.

So I took it down and am about to sell it.

It is very very hard work, great exercise and a good giggle. It does not make you sluttish - you are doing it in the privacy of your own home FGS!

Enjoy and I'll stick to me bellydancing

By the way love the tree tattoo - the others are nice too but the tree one is fab.

EleanoraBuntingCupcake · 08/09/2009 19:32

watch clip of 'raw' features male pole dancing!

Megglevache · 08/09/2009 19:35

My arms would fall off if I so much as tried to lift my mahoosive arse over my head....

I am amazed at some of the positions those girls can get into TBH.

jemart · 08/09/2009 19:44

"Apparently only whore, sluts and dirty women pole dance" - well I don't know you personally so would not be able to comment except to say that you must have known it would incite such a reaction from people before you installed the pole in your lounge?

dittany · 08/09/2009 19:46

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Flamesparrow · 08/09/2009 19:51

Mummy doesn't do stripper moves. Mummy dances on/with a pole. her clothes remain on whilst she exercises

jemart · 08/09/2009 19:54

Dittany is right there, they will copy you you know.

dittany · 08/09/2009 19:56

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Flamesparrow · 08/09/2009 19:57

Stupid me, I sort of thought that stripper moves required, erm, stripping???

Megglevache · 08/09/2009 19:58

But children don't start grinding and humping the fireman's pole in the school playground, do they? Or do they? Maybe after watching a "Sugababes" video they would

Megglevache · 08/09/2009 19:59

smelling