where the hell do u find a good man

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where have they all gone

when you bwrite bear in mind that someone might want to do the thing you say you like with you

eg mountain climbing so think whatv you want the person to like

what music do you like eg

Don't think I have encountered Lostdad on here yet.

Erm anyway, what about LegallyBrunette78 ??

agreed with zip on that one be open in your thinking, and don't think about every one as he's xyz finding faults or thinking that it's not going to work etc etc. jsut keep it casual & chatty - basically imagine you're chatting to your mates (or us )

Sounds familiar Mascara, I do that all the time. Envy people I mean, not run out for pizza.

get a name off a lyric you like

moh I think we all envy that to an extent tbh.

like that one nutty yes.

nutty, what's your RL first name? can't you do a play on that?

I've done that before and have received lots of messages asking if it's my real name.

Or, just pick a name that you've always liked and call yourself that..

and if you say eg you like eating out then you may get a lot of fat munters

mountain climbing rules them out

if you dont mind walking or camping then that vseems quite a good thing to put or swimming

well these are my things as i do like them and prefer that idea to just pubing and clubbing

charliecat and i have offered to go to nuttyland and take her out, but she isn't that brave yet

some of the blokes on pof are total nobbers, some are dullards, some are basic decent chaps, some are good fun, you have to learn by trial and error really

i'm still on there, in fact i met a guy from pof last weekend, but he reminded me too much of my exh, so that was knocked on the head pretty quickly

right now though i have a date lined up for next weekend, from someone who saw me on his friends facebook account a few weeks ago, and decided to get in touch

and until i am seeing anyone seriously enough to make an effort, i have a friend with benefits, which works for me

i do realise that this arrangement would not be to many people's tastes, however

oh yes you could have your name

with nem on the end

First name is Emma.

LegallyBrunette78 is available what do we all reckon, yep or no ?

Oh and what on earth do I put as my headline ?

yep go with that,

on mine I think it said genuine gal looking for genuine guy (or words to that effect).

also say you like swimming and walking or stuff like that.

actually iw ould say legally brunette sounds a bit sexy but i might be wrong

ROFL Zippi, that made me choke on my crisps

ok having read a bit more of this nutty, what i would suggest is say what you dont want on your profile as well

and avoid making yourself sound like an old labrador (loyal, honest, faithful etc)

like zippi says, short but sweet, to the point, dont make yourself sound grateful for any attention you may get, make them feel lucky you reply to them

tho llelley sounded fairly porno to me but i didnt mind when i picked it and i did chat to quite a few normal folk

but also some sex orientsted ones

for which i blame lou

for no particular reason

lou thought my friend was a wimp by the way when we were doijng hot or not

I get sexnuts with a non sexy name so not sure it matters either way LOL.

Will go for LegallyBrunette and see what happens.

Just looking for a decent pic now.

Oh and a headline.

for some reason i get blamed for stuff like that a lot

in all seriousness i have never responded to anyone who sends me badly written porn, with me in the starring role (unless i requested it....)

find a pic with a smiole i found they like those unless you are good at the come hother stuff

how about sticking with the brunette theme '1non-blonde'

or how about 'Friday' or 'April'

or maybe something more daring likw 'bitchonheat'

is that your friend or your boyfriend?

i have since said he seems like a lovely chap though