where the hell do u find a good man

[starscream]

where have they all gone

the thing with pof is it is free and big

nutty why dont you try messaging people on there who dont even live near and then you might at leastr chat to someone nice which would be fun and give you confidence

my confidence was crap to start with and i just practiced on people

yep agreed will also help you to spot those who are only after one thing quicker (that and lou/zippi's advice as well! lol)

I always think thats a bit pointles though zippy, cos what if i end up really really liking them and they live hundreds of miles away.

I know that i think too far ahead, but I can't help it.

Might have another go at POF, will have a think about it.

Not got any nice pics of me though, can I use a fake one

I have to sort kids out for bed, can you think of a new name for POF then ?

hmm, how about the place you live and gal on the end - show are fun loving?

I am not fun loving though, I am a miserable stressed out moaning cow LOL.

Pretty sure that names similar to that have been taken DTM.

Name previously was LittleMissShy i think.

lol. well you don't tell them that do you!!!

ok how about er...

fannylil! no honestly, how about er,

how about sparklyeyes? (bit too girlie?)

what abput crackerofnuts

pmsl

not sure my advice is much good

well the guy i am seing lives in london

so possibly there are disadvanatges to that but i have spoke to nearer ones but the ones imediately here were all absolute crap

i am off there now but my name was llelley

Hmm non of the suggestions have jumped out at me yet.

My nickname on the CB many moons ago was CherryB, although I can't remember why.

i have had a coupole of tag lines on different ones

like a chilli chocolate was one

and scream if you want to go faster

yep agreed! lol.

missbrowneyes? (or blue or the colour of your eyes?)

LOL, I am sure Lostdad would have some objections to that .

Missbrowneyes is ok, will see if it is available.

just think of an mn type name i dont think it is that important

have a short profile

the important bit is putting something which makes you sound interesting and they can mention in a message to you

think about what sort of person you want

tho being open minded is important as the person you end up with may not be at all how you would have oimagined

im sure that cant just be me

or browneyedgirl but you might get a lot of old van morrison fans

Missbrowneyes has gone.

Something strange happened to me this evening..

I was sat in a coffee shop with dd and I was casually watching people nipping in and out of the domino's pizza place next door.. andthere was a woman run in, she was just wearing jeans & a tshirt, slipper type shoes and then walk out with a couple of pizzas that she had just collected....

and I thought to myself, that 's what I want to be. I want to be the woman who has just nipped out for a couple of pizzas before the family sit down for a night in front of the TV or they put the kids to bed and curl up in front of a film with a bottle of wine.

I realised that I actually yearn to feel settled. That woman probably saw nipping out in the cold to get the pizza as a chore and yet I looked at her with envy. weird..

but it made me realise I do want to find someone to settle down with.. I might search for some dating sites where they give you a couple of weeks free. If I find any good ones I'll let you know!