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Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!

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WilsonMilson · 08/07/2023 13:35

New thread as I see the old one is about the run out.

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Dashel · 11/07/2023 18:59

Really hope that the good news is great and the bad is not too bad.

I hope the treatment starts tomorrow and works well.

Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!
YukoandHiro · 11/07/2023 19:08

Keep going Pamela. We're here with you x

dontdillydallytoolong · 11/07/2023 19:09

So glad to hear there is some good news. I hope you pain management has improved and you are able to get some rest. Sending you strength and prayers. X

Allnightlong2016 · 11/07/2023 19:12

Thinking about you and hoping all went well for the portacath insertion. You’re an inspiration and there’s an army of prayers and positive energy and thoughts behind you xx

Muchtoomuchtodo · 11/07/2023 19:14

Lovely to hear that you’re on the right tracks for treatment to start tomorrow Pamela.

You really are a tough cookie and I’m sending my love to you, Kerr and the rest of your family xx

sonicmum2002 · 11/07/2023 19:30

Will be thinking of you tomorrow! My garden is an unlovely mess of weeds so sadly can't share any uplifting photos from there. xxxxxx

Tallisimo · 11/07/2023 19:38

I think about you every day and of course, it’s amazing to see your updates. But, but, but don’t feel obligated, please save your strength and energy for yourself and your family. Of course, if posting here helps you just a little, then that is very special and we are privileged to be able to share just a little of your journey.

much love xx

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Willmafrockfit · 11/07/2023 19:44

thinking of you Flowers
faith hope and love

boredsolicitor · 11/07/2023 19:53

Another poster thinking of you and everything you are going through with such grace. Hoping the good news outweighs the bad and that your pain is under control . Xx

IrmaBunt · 11/07/2023 20:00

You're in so many people's thoughts Pamela. I'm sending love to you from North Yorkshire.

I thought you might like to see this garden visitor, who looks slightly put out that she's been rumbled.

Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!
Emiliagrey · 11/07/2023 20:15

Good luck for tomorrow Pamela. Here’s a pic from Edinburgh x

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Allwelcone · 11/07/2023 20:15

@IrmaBunt lovely photo- She looks so busted but what gorgeous gentle eyes...
Pamela you're probably absolutely whacked please don't feel you need to update we will all be here no matter what 🌸 🏵

Notaclue252 · 11/07/2023 20:16

Posting for the first time to send shedloads of positive, healing energy to you, Kerr, Jacob and your mum and also all the wonderful medical staff.
Faith, love and hope from a small corner of Essex. 💖

Pommersy · 11/07/2023 20:17

Another who has been watching your threads and not posted before as everyone else seems to say things so much better than I could. I want you to know though that you write so beautifully and thoughtfully about what is happening to you and also your love for your family shines. I hope one day you will write a book. You are always in my thoughts

Ketchupgoesinthefridge · 11/07/2023 20:21

Hope you're resting and the port went well. Sending love from Wexford, Ireland x❤️

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RedLem0nade · 11/07/2023 20:23

Another person thinking of you and yours every day Pamela. Sending love and prayers.

Here’s a picture of some of our wildflowers for you xx

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Iwantanapnow · 11/07/2023 20:24

Just sending best wishes Pamela and hope all goes well tomorrow 💕💕

Whattheflipflap · 11/07/2023 20:28

Hope the surgery went ok
heres my favourite beach in Cornwall for you. I hope you can visit it or somewhere equally beautiful soon
and here is my lovely local lake and the ducks!
lots of love

Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!
Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!
BluebellsareBlue · 11/07/2023 20:29

Hi Pam, I haven't posted before because other posters say things much more eloquently than I do.

I've followed your journey since the first thread (although I don't get notifications in my email - hacked, full mailbox) so it's just when I have time to check MN I look for your threads.

I am sending you every single piece of strength that I have, every bit of peace that I have within me and all the love from the bottom of my heart.

My son is 19 and like you brought him up by myself with the help of my wonderful mum and dad. Connor was 12 when my mum passed from cancer in 2017 and although he was younger than Jacob and it was his gran, I feel I know how you are feeling about how he is coping. You are doing an amazing job of being his mum, don't ever doubt that. The courage you have displayed and the deep, loving, emotional link you have with him and your family is evident.

I just plucked up courage to post this evening to tell you that I think of you almost every day.

All my love,
Paula (dundee (well now monifieth) Scotland) xxxxxx

BluebellsareBlue · 11/07/2023 20:30

I also noticed I wrote Pam and not Pamela!! I'm so sorry, no idea why I did that!! Xx

RafaThisAndRogerThat · 11/07/2023 20:41

Sending love and positive vibes for your treatment tomorrow. I hope you're more comfortable now and have been able to get more rest x

Devgov · 11/07/2023 20:46

Sending you lots of love and hope your treatment tomorrow goes well. You are one brave lady 💐
Lynda xx

Toothiepegg · 11/07/2023 20:52

I hope all goes well for your tomorrow. Always thinking of you all. Love as always, Isabella x

qualitychat · 11/07/2023 20:55

Sending you best wishes for tomorrow, you are such a brave woman Love Alison x

TheNinthLock · 11/07/2023 21:28

@Whattheflipflap - love the sea pool, hoping to visit again soon!

Pamela, in my thoughts, as always ❤️

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