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Employer dismissed me, now wants to hear grievance. Please help!

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Tootiredtosleep · 18/12/2024 16:46

So, I raised a grievance with my employer back in July this year, and a further grievance re a protected characteristic.

They acknowledged the first grievance and invited me to a meeting with the Director (who the grievance was about - it's a small company - no HR). I asked for a reasonable adjustment, could it be held in written form and this was not acknowledged.

The further grievance re the protected characteristic (race), was never acknowledged by the company.

However, they invited me to a disciplinary whilst I was on sick leave, for gross misconduct/fraud. I was subsequently sacked. They were wrong on all counts of what they accused me of. However, for one small thing I had no evidence, and it was upheld as 'reasonable belief'.

The last correspondence from them re my grievances was 27th July 2024.

I have now filed a case at the tribunal for race discrimination, sex discrimination (they contacted my ex husband to find out information) victimisation (raising disciplinary after I done a protected act) and failure to provide an employment contract.

All negotiations with ACAS have failed. They won't communicate.

However, some 5 months since they acknowledged my grievance, they have now written to me to say they would like to hear these grievances and want me to attend a meeting. This is one month after I have been dismissed. It wasn't mentioned in my dismissal letter.

I know I need to show the tribunal that I have exhausted the grievance procedure, but surely contacting me after all this time, when I am no longer an employee is wrong? Can anyone advise?

I have tried to keep it brief, but can provide further details.

OP posts:
Ponchodreams · 27/11/2025 09:21

Fantastic news! How awful that this has had to dominate your life for so long.

notatinydancer · 27/11/2025 09:23

Congratulations 🥳

Bobbydazz · 27/11/2025 09:29

Congratulations. This is great news.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 27/11/2025 09:29

Congratulations!
You deserve all the good things, please book yourself something special and just relish in the justice.

cozyandwarmish · 27/11/2025 09:30

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:21

I’ve just won at tribunal.

Yes - I just saw that. I should have read the whole thread before commenting. You must be overjoyed!

GirlsInGreen · 27/11/2025 09:38

Woohoo🥳🥳🥳🥳

mummytrex · 27/11/2025 09:42

Great result OP.

Just be mindful re the Judgment - your employer is wiley and they may not pay up which will mean you have to enforce. Hope that isn't the case.

Scampuss · 27/11/2025 09:43

Massive well done 🎉

letshavetea · 27/11/2025 09:45

OP congratulations! 🥳 so pleased for you. There is justice in this world! Fingers crossed for the new job now. Please let us know.

GrandHighVitch · 27/11/2025 09:46

Oh my goodness. I’ve just read your entire thread after it appeared in Active….I am so happy and relieved for you!!!! What a result! Congratulations!!! You must feel like a very heavy weight has been lifted off your shoulders.

kellygoeswest · 27/11/2025 09:47

Congratulations and well done for persisting, you've been through so much but I'm pleased it all worked out!

Lndnmummy · 27/11/2025 09:58

OP!!!! This is the best news. I am so happy for you. When good wins over evil you can tell God is at work.
you have been so brave, so so so brave. I am so genuinely happy for you. Now your soul and heart can heal and begin to recover.

APatternGrammar · 27/11/2025 09:58

Congratulations, enjoy the Christmas season without this hanging over your head!

thepariscrimefiles · 27/11/2025 10:41

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:13

I WON ON ALL COUNTS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

The judge said I was consistent and reliable throughout. Whilst the respondents were not.

So pleased, relieved and downright exhausted. I may sleep for a week.

That's amazing! I absolutely love it when the good guys win!

AlphaApple · 27/11/2025 10:50

Whoop Whoop. Well done and thanks so much for updating.

If you feel like sharing the link to the judgement that would be amazing, but I appreciate your need for privacy as well.

Henry8thHoover · 27/11/2025 11:00

Wow that’s the best news! I read your thread when you first posted and have been watching it ever since.
Well done, what a great result.

Edited for spelling!

FuelledByRageAndHaribo · 27/11/2025 11:04

Fabulous news, and a huge well done for your courage in seeing it through, you should be very proud of yourself.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 27/11/2025 11:17

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:13

I WON ON ALL COUNTS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

The judge said I was consistent and reliable throughout. Whilst the respondents were not.

So pleased, relieved and downright exhausted. I may sleep for a week.

Amazing news. So pleased for you!! Hopefully your job interview will be equally successful and you can move on with your life.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 27/11/2025 11:28

That’s fantastic news! So pleased for you. It’s been long and stressful but you did it!! Hope you get a good chunk of ££ in your compensation package. I hope you can now put this sorry state of affairs behind you and continue to flourish in your career.

Daytimetellyqueen · 27/11/2025 12:11

So pleased Op. Hope you get a big payout!

BasicBrumble · 27/11/2025 12:49

Amazing OP, so pleased for you! And now you can move on and forward with your life. Let us know if any further updates but hopefully all calm and lovely now!

JustAn0therUsername · 27/11/2025 13:14

Oh amazing. Huge congratulations!! Xx

FairyBatman · 27/11/2025 13:24

Congratulations I remember your post from the time. So pleased you won!

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 13:25

Thank you so much, everyone. It means a lot to me.

It’s starting to sink in now. I’m also prepared for the fight to get what I was awarded.

I may even be brave enough to share the judgment when it’s available.

Thank you ❤️

OP posts:
Dogsrfunny · 27/11/2025 13:59

Brilliant news, I'm so pleased for you. It's so easy to give up as the stress builds but you carried on and got what you deserved. Takes some time to recharge and relax now if you can.

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