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Employer dismissed me, now wants to hear grievance. Please help!

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Tootiredtosleep · 18/12/2024 16:46

So, I raised a grievance with my employer back in July this year, and a further grievance re a protected characteristic.

They acknowledged the first grievance and invited me to a meeting with the Director (who the grievance was about - it's a small company - no HR). I asked for a reasonable adjustment, could it be held in written form and this was not acknowledged.

The further grievance re the protected characteristic (race), was never acknowledged by the company.

However, they invited me to a disciplinary whilst I was on sick leave, for gross misconduct/fraud. I was subsequently sacked. They were wrong on all counts of what they accused me of. However, for one small thing I had no evidence, and it was upheld as 'reasonable belief'.

The last correspondence from them re my grievances was 27th July 2024.

I have now filed a case at the tribunal for race discrimination, sex discrimination (they contacted my ex husband to find out information) victimisation (raising disciplinary after I done a protected act) and failure to provide an employment contract.

All negotiations with ACAS have failed. They won't communicate.

However, some 5 months since they acknowledged my grievance, they have now written to me to say they would like to hear these grievances and want me to attend a meeting. This is one month after I have been dismissed. It wasn't mentioned in my dismissal letter.

I know I need to show the tribunal that I have exhausted the grievance procedure, but surely contacting me after all this time, when I am no longer an employee is wrong? Can anyone advise?

I have tried to keep it brief, but can provide further details.

OP posts:
Scared0112 · 29/11/2025 21:43

I’m so glad!! Excellent news. Well done !! 👏

I have questions about using home insurance for this- how did you find application for support and where there any rules and stipulations?

Tootiredtosleep · 29/11/2025 21:47

Scared0112 · 29/11/2025 21:43

I’m so glad!! Excellent news. Well done !! 👏

I have questions about using home insurance for this- how did you find application for support and where there any rules and stipulations?

Thank you ☺️

I have just sent a DM to another poster who asked the same thing. I will forward it on to you x

OP posts:
twinklebiglight · 29/11/2025 22:41

😄❤️

Zilla1 · 30/11/2025 00:23

Thank you for letting me know and congratulations, OP. Well done and I'm really pleased for you.

It's a shame you've had to go through all this. You've said how grim it's been and I'm not suggesting life is all roses or like an inspiring three word artwork but perhaps 'old' you might be pleasantly surprised and impressed by 'new' you, how you managed to survive the process, hang on and at the strength and resilience you had to develop.

Still have fingers crossed for your new career/venture and that you receive all the money you're due from your settlement. From what you've said, I expect he'll be spitting feathers and paying the settlement will hurt. He might have been relying on you giving up with no plan b beyond his attempt to revive the grievance back in the day of your OP.

Best wishes,

smellthecheese · 30/11/2025 00:56

Will Tanya return, even briefly? I hope so x

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