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Employer dismissed me, now wants to hear grievance. Please help!

305 replies

Tootiredtosleep · 18/12/2024 16:46

So, I raised a grievance with my employer back in July this year, and a further grievance re a protected characteristic.

They acknowledged the first grievance and invited me to a meeting with the Director (who the grievance was about - it's a small company - no HR). I asked for a reasonable adjustment, could it be held in written form and this was not acknowledged.

The further grievance re the protected characteristic (race), was never acknowledged by the company.

However, they invited me to a disciplinary whilst I was on sick leave, for gross misconduct/fraud. I was subsequently sacked. They were wrong on all counts of what they accused me of. However, for one small thing I had no evidence, and it was upheld as 'reasonable belief'.

The last correspondence from them re my grievances was 27th July 2024.

I have now filed a case at the tribunal for race discrimination, sex discrimination (they contacted my ex husband to find out information) victimisation (raising disciplinary after I done a protected act) and failure to provide an employment contract.

All negotiations with ACAS have failed. They won't communicate.

However, some 5 months since they acknowledged my grievance, they have now written to me to say they would like to hear these grievances and want me to attend a meeting. This is one month after I have been dismissed. It wasn't mentioned in my dismissal letter.

I know I need to show the tribunal that I have exhausted the grievance procedure, but surely contacting me after all this time, when I am no longer an employee is wrong? Can anyone advise?

I have tried to keep it brief, but can provide further details.

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Henry8thHoover · 27/11/2025 15:41

What an absolute cockwomble the employer was.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 27/11/2025 15:45

So happy for you.

Your employers got everything they deserved.

Beach11 · 27/11/2025 15:58

Amazing new. Well done op 🎉💪🍾

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 16:15

Henry8thHoover · 27/11/2025 15:41

What an absolute cockwomble the employer was.

This made me laugh 😆

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hmmnotreallysure · 27/11/2025 16:35

That's fantastic news op!!! It must be such a relief, well done 🎉

Harassedevictee · 27/11/2025 17:19

@Tootiredtosleep Congratulations. I hope you sleep well tonight having been vindicated.

I know all parties in ETs find it stressful and it takes over your life. Well done for seeing it through and for being such a credible claimant.

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 27/11/2025 17:42

So pleased for you OP. Flowers

Kimura · 27/11/2025 18:02

Well done OP! ❤️

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 27/11/2025 18:32

I am soooooooo pleased for you, OP.
Well done xxx

HappyKatieA · 27/11/2025 18:42

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:13

I WON ON ALL COUNTS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

The judge said I was consistent and reliable throughout. Whilst the respondents were not.

So pleased, relieved and downright exhausted. I may sleep for a week.

Amazing, congratulations 🥂

Azandme · 27/11/2025 18:42

Well done!!!!

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 27/11/2025 21:58

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:13

I WON ON ALL COUNTS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

The judge said I was consistent and reliable throughout. Whilst the respondents were not.

So pleased, relieved and downright exhausted. I may sleep for a week.

Yesss!!!!!!!

WeightLossGoal2024 · 27/11/2025 22:06

Congratulations!!

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 27/11/2025 22:43

I’m so pleased for you. And in awe …

you have done all your fellow employees a massive service

IMustDoMoreExercise · 28/11/2025 08:54

Tootiredtosleep · 27/11/2025 09:21

@PrizedPickledPopcorn
Yes, I’ve been awarded compensation, and the judgement will be made public.

There are no cost applications in Employment Tribunal, but mine were paid by my insurance company, so I haven’t had to pay personally.

Congratulations.

Which insurance did you use? Was it legal cover on your home insurance?

Tootiredtosleep · 28/11/2025 10:01

IMustDoMoreExercise · 28/11/2025 08:54

Congratulations.

Which insurance did you use? Was it legal cover on your home insurance?

Yes, it was my home insurance. This was another fight I had to win (maybe for another thread!)

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NigellaAwesome · 28/11/2025 12:27

Fantastic result!! Although of course it still doesn’t take away from what you went through, completely unnecessarily. I hope your job interview is successful.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 28/11/2025 16:09

Tootiredtosleep · 28/11/2025 10:01

Yes, it was my home insurance. This was another fight I had to win (maybe for another thread!)

Actually, it would be very useful to know how you managed to convince them once you have fully recovered from your ordeal as they seem to be very reluctant to do anything once you have fully recovered from your ordeal.

If you could please put a link to the new thread on this thread, I would be grateful.

Tootiredtosleep · 28/11/2025 16:25

IMustDoMoreExercise · 28/11/2025 16:09

Actually, it would be very useful to know how you managed to convince them once you have fully recovered from your ordeal as they seem to be very reluctant to do anything once you have fully recovered from your ordeal.

If you could please put a link to the new thread on this thread, I would be grateful.

@IMustDoMoreExercisePM me if you wish, I can give you any information you need. Best wishes.

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TickyBooo · 28/11/2025 19:46

I would say you don't need to engage as you're no longer an employee. Do you have a solicitor you can consult with?

TickyBooo · 28/11/2025 19:47

Sorry just seen update - amazing, well done! Love it when people win against bully companies

TrainedByKittens · 29/11/2025 20:10

Just caught up with this, Congratulations 🎉

Tootiredtosleep · 29/11/2025 21:35

@Zilla1 just tagging you to let you know I won at tribunal!

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Tootiredtosleep · 29/11/2025 21:35

NigellaAwesome · 28/11/2025 12:27

Fantastic result!! Although of course it still doesn’t take away from what you went through, completely unnecessarily. I hope your job interview is successful.

Thank you.

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Tootiredtosleep · 29/11/2025 21:35

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 27/11/2025 22:43

I’m so pleased for you. And in awe …

you have done all your fellow employees a massive service

Thank you.

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