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Employer dismissed me, now wants to hear grievance. Please help!

305 replies

Tootiredtosleep · 18/12/2024 16:46

So, I raised a grievance with my employer back in July this year, and a further grievance re a protected characteristic.

They acknowledged the first grievance and invited me to a meeting with the Director (who the grievance was about - it's a small company - no HR). I asked for a reasonable adjustment, could it be held in written form and this was not acknowledged.

The further grievance re the protected characteristic (race), was never acknowledged by the company.

However, they invited me to a disciplinary whilst I was on sick leave, for gross misconduct/fraud. I was subsequently sacked. They were wrong on all counts of what they accused me of. However, for one small thing I had no evidence, and it was upheld as 'reasonable belief'.

The last correspondence from them re my grievances was 27th July 2024.

I have now filed a case at the tribunal for race discrimination, sex discrimination (they contacted my ex husband to find out information) victimisation (raising disciplinary after I done a protected act) and failure to provide an employment contract.

All negotiations with ACAS have failed. They won't communicate.

However, some 5 months since they acknowledged my grievance, they have now written to me to say they would like to hear these grievances and want me to attend a meeting. This is one month after I have been dismissed. It wasn't mentioned in my dismissal letter.

I know I need to show the tribunal that I have exhausted the grievance procedure, but surely contacting me after all this time, when I am no longer an employee is wrong? Can anyone advise?

I have tried to keep it brief, but can provide further details.

OP posts:
FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 25/11/2025 09:53

Good luck!

NigellaAwesome · 25/11/2025 10:15

Good luck today. I’ve been there and it was very satisfying to watch my former manager squirm as he attempted to justify the unjustifiable.

Tootiredtosleep · 25/11/2025 19:00

@NigellaAwesome thank you. Did you get a positive result?

Thank you everyone. It was a long day, and we get through a lot. We even managed submissions.

My barrister was absolutely superb. He tore through my ex-employer like a dose of salts. I actually felt sorry for him at one point. He just couldn’t answer one thing honestly. It was downright embarrassing. The judge had to intervene quite a lot, to get him to answer the questions correctly. It was amazing to watch.

She will deliver her decision tomorrow at lunchtime.

I have to add that my ex employer’s submission was ‘It’s all lies’ and that was it!

Fingers crossed for tomorrow. I am not going, as I have a job interview, so the solicitor will let me know the decision after.

Thanks for all the support.

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thepariscrimefiles · 25/11/2025 19:02

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a good outcome for you.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 25/11/2025 19:04

Yay! I bet that was reassuring. Good luck with your Interview!

HumberBridge2 · 25/11/2025 19:19

Oh OP I've been following this since the start, what an update! Very best of luck tomorrow for both your job interview and your court case!!

letshavetea · 25/11/2025 19:32

All the very best for your interview. So glad you have a great barrister. It’s a big advantage that you have professional representation. Waiting to hear tomorrow’s update.

JustAn0therUsername · 25/11/2025 19:44

That must have been very satisfying to watch. And good luck for tomorrow. For both the decision AND the interview.

Scampuss · 25/11/2025 19:53

Sounds like it was definitely worth going today!

Double good luck for tomorrow 🍀🍀🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛

Tootiredtosleep · 25/11/2025 19:59

It was definitely worth going today! My daughter came with me for moral support, and it was great to have her there holding my hand.

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carly2803 · 25/11/2025 20:33

Tootiredtosleep · 25/11/2025 19:59

It was definitely worth going today! My daughter came with me for moral support, and it was great to have her there holding my hand.

well done! you did this - i have read your entire thread and what a journey!!

let us know of the results tomorrow - i really hope they pay you well for the absolute crap they have put you through

big hugs and again, well done!! you are strong

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 25/11/2025 20:34

I am so glad - hope you get double good news tomorrow! (Outcome and job interview) :)

Azandme · 25/11/2025 20:41

I'm so glad you went - just seeing his actions being questioned is very cathartic.

Good luck for your interview and your outcome!

PragmaticIsh · 25/11/2025 20:42

That took real bravery to stick it out through the whole process, to attend yesterday AND go back today after yesterday was so gruelling. Well done!

ToBeOrNotToBee · 25/11/2025 21:00

Good luck for tomorrow, I truly hope your next employer appreciates your tenacity.

Dogsrfunny · 25/11/2025 21:05

Fingers 🤞 for you tomorrow. You have been very brave. Hopefully after tomorrow you can put it all behind you

WeightLossGoal2024 · 25/11/2025 23:57

Good luck for tomorrow. Be so proud of how strong you have been

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 26/11/2025 09:18

That must have been delicious to watch him squirm. Good luck with both the job interview and the tribunal.

Tootiredtosleep · 26/11/2025 09:48

The stress and anxiety waiting on this result is the worst I have ever known. I cannot function.

Cannot wait for this to be over.

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JustAn0therUsername · 26/11/2025 10:09

Not long now. You can do this. ❤️

ToBeOrNotToBee · 26/11/2025 10:31

It won't be long now. I know the waiting is the worst, but the hard graft is done now.

Lndnmummy · 26/11/2025 11:01

We are right here OP, rooting for you.

Tootiredtosleep · 26/11/2025 11:57

The judge allowed the barrister to deliver remedy. I’m wondering if this is a good sign? Very nervous and overthinking!

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Outlookmainlyfair · 26/11/2025 12:10

Crossing fingers!

Bobbydazz · 26/11/2025 12:14

Sounds like a good sign to me. Good luck