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IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022

357 replies

Girlwholifts · 20/09/2022 16:09

Hi everyone.

I wanted to start a thread for anyone going through an IVF round in the next few weeks. I am currently on my third round of ICSI after a MMC at 9weeks on cycle 1 and a BFN on cycle 2. Third time lucky, I hope!

IVF can feel like a very lonely place sometimes so it's nice to have somewhere to vent and get advice 🙂

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Zik · 11/10/2022 15:34

Hii had my transfer today. 2 blastocysts were transferred.

Nobabyyet20 · 11/10/2022 15:38

@RoseLlo great news about your embryos. Hope your doing okay, do you have a transfer booked?

@Zik hope the transfer went well! Thinking of you! X

Tonim86 · 11/10/2022 15:43

@Eggling I'm going insane tbh 😩😂 I can't imagine I'm going to wait much longer worn out testing I don't remember it being this bad last time either I'm thinking about testing Friday so nervous.

@RoseLlo @Zik sounds like you both progressing well hopefully continue to have good news @Zik welcome to the 2ww xx

Tonim86 · 11/10/2022 15:44

With not worn

Eggling · 11/10/2022 15:55

Congrats @RoseLlo great numbers! And congrats on transfer @zik!

@Tonim86 well I'm sorry to hear you're finding it rough too but relieved it's not just me. I'm WFH today and have honestly spent most of the day in tears over daft videos on the internet. We are really unhelpfully away at my in laws this weekend for a family party so planning to test Thursday as we'll both be at home. I'm terrified too - virtual hand hold!

RoseLlo · 11/10/2022 16:48

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Tonim86 · 11/10/2022 17:51

@Eggling oh I hope you get a BFP when is your OTD i worked from home yesterday and went a bit crazy today was ok as I was in the office. I'm going to order my tests tomorrow so by the time they come Thursday I won't test till Friday as I won't get home till 7pm on Thursday night. Although I think I always seem to have more ''symptoms'' in the afternoon. Will be thinking of you on Thursday x

Eggling · 11/10/2022 19:15

Thanks @RoseLlo 😊 @Tonim86 OTD isn't until the 19th but there's no way I can wait that long! I alternate between wanting to test right now and wanting to never test. I'm in the office tomorrow so hopefully that will be a distraction at least!

Tonim86 · 11/10/2022 20:02

@Eggling oh how weird mine is the 18th yeah same the realisation of what a test means. Put your life into one plastic test 😩 I'm the same I will be terrified xx

Achaps · 11/10/2022 20:42

@RoseLlo ah that’s great news about your embryos 🙏 so I guess you’ll be heading back to Czech for your transfer? Bet you can’t wait to get home now though!
Good luck @Eggling @Tonim86 @Zik! Not looking forward to that bit, I’m so impatient 😩

Zik · 11/10/2022 20:52

Pls I need tips from those who have gone through these before and have been successful..what can I start taking or doing to maximise my chances?

Tonim86 · 11/10/2022 22:56

@Zik after transfer all you can do is try to relax and not stress to much (easier said than done I know) i don't think there's anything you really can do now you have done all you can, best of luck

Zik · 12/10/2022 09:36

Thanks
I was also prescribed HCG injection to take 2 days after transfer alongside cyclogest. any idea what the HCG injection is for?

bathbombaholic · 12/10/2022 10:04

Lovely seeing everyone's updates. To the girls in the 2ww I think it's going to be all about distraction distraction distraction til OTD.

Just a little one from me- I had egg collection on Monday- 5 eggs collected and 4 fertilised. Transfer will be on saturday all being well x

Nobabyyet20 · 12/10/2022 13:32

@RoseLlo ah glad your okay and hope you get home soon! Sure December will be here before we know it! ❤️

@bathbombaholic ah that’s great news.. how are you feeling? Wishing you all the best for your transfer.

i had my first scan today I had 24 follicles but only 8 over 10, 3 at 12mm and 2 at 14mm. She said i was responding normally and wasn’t concerned about over response atm. I can’t help but think is that enough? I’ve been told so much I’m going to over respond it almost feels a bit weird I haven’t! Next scan on Friday and retrieval booked for Monday. Anyone else had similar experience? I’m also trying not to get hopes up I’ll be able to have a fresh transfer but have failed at that today.

Spink2022 · 12/10/2022 16:51

I hope time speeds up for you ladies so test day is here soon!!

those numbers sound good to me @Nobabyyet20

i had my first scan Monday and only had 7 folicules ranging from 6-13mm. Next scan Friday. Hopefully EC Monday or Tues depending on my scan Friday. Im not feeling massively positive given how few folicules I have but it only takes one and hopefully they’ll be good quality!

bathbombaholic · 12/10/2022 18:04

@Nobabyyet20 I'm feeling ok at the moment, didn't have any pain but been reeeeally tired tho I suppose my sleep is a bit all over due to the anxiety of everything so just riding it for now.

@Spink2022 I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry. I only had 8 follicles and still got 4 fertilised eggs- it really is quality over quantity in this game. And still lots of time for them to grow x

Tonim86 · 12/10/2022 18:10

@Zik sorry no advice on the hcg trigger but if you test early you may need to wait till the trigger is out of your system
@bathbombaholic that's sounds like great news I hope this week goes well looking forward to hearing updates on the transfer
@Nobabyyet20 sounds like they doing well and smaller ones still got plenty of time to catch up
@Spink2022 after my first follicle check I had 12 and then by EC there was 25 suddenly loads appeared in the last couple of days, however it is always quality of quantity. I hear so many stories where people get lots but end up being poor quality. Hope the next week goes well for you both.

I'm 6DP5DT and I nearly cracked today in the shops looking for a test however they only had clear blue I have ordered my FRER off Amazon arriving tomorrow so only need to hold out a little while I'm going to test Friday. I ended up buying some chocolate to compensate not buying a test the struggle is real

Spink2022 · 12/10/2022 19:37

Thank you both @bathbombaholic @Tonim86 thats made me feel loads better!!

im so glad you bought chocolate to compensate! I think we all need treats right now! Especially on your Tww. Let us know your results when you test! I know I’ll be climbing the walls when I’m in the Tww so think I might have to get my OH to hide the tests 😂😂

Eggling · 12/10/2022 19:58

@bathbombaholic great news not long until transfer day for you now!

@Spink2022
@Nobabyyet20 I also found that a load more appeared between my last two scans, plus as has been said it's quality not quantity. Great that everything seems to be going well.

Glad you've got chocolate @Tonim86! I've been a bit more distracted today as been in the office but the anxiety has resurfaced now I'm home. Still Not sure I'm actually going to have the guts to test tomorrow. We'll have to see!

Achaps · 12/10/2022 20:19

@bathbombaholic ah glad your egg collection went well and you’re recovering well, hope all goes well for your fresh transfer!
@Spink2022 @Nobabyyet20 fingers crossed for your follicles but more importantly some happy eggs :)

Nobabyyet20 · 12/10/2022 20:54

@Spink2022 ahh sorry that you don’t feel positive but it’s sounds like things can change so rapidly with this process. I know it’s easier said than done but maybe plan some nice things before your next scan?
@bathbombaholic so glad your feeling okay. Lots of rest it’s a huge thing you’ve just been through.
@Tonim86 i have lost count at how many tests I’ve done over the years, chocolate sounds like a good alternative! Good luck for Friday.
@Eggling sending you best wishes for tomorrow.
thank you @Achaps

Spin101 · 12/10/2022 20:58

It’s nice to read your updates above. Hope you’re all well and staying as calm as one possibly can at this time!

I’m waiting for my cycle to start (hoping it comes soon) so I can start on stims!

@Zik my understanding is HCG injection is to trigger maturation of follicles (taken 36 hours before egg collection). I would certainly clarify with your clinic if they have told you something different as each case is different.

Eggling · 13/10/2022 06:18

BFN so I think I'm out

Tonim86 · 13/10/2022 07:03

@Eggling I'm so sorry to read this 😢 will you test again over the next few days or hold out till OTD I hope you have a late implantation. This process is so cruel please go easy on yourself and plan something nice 💗 xx