IVF January/February 2021? continued

[hopefully21]

I just set this up as we reached the limit in the other one.

@kikisparks good that you're feeling better about it. Hope your confidence increases as the weeks pass and you can relax and enjoy it. Thank you, I hope so too!

Thank you guys. And I’m so sorry for those of you with bad news - this journey can really suck at times. Wishing you all the absolute best.

@MF1981 I believe we had transfer the same day, how far along are you now? I should be 6+7 days today. Would you mind sharing your measurements in terms of crl and gestacional sac. Mine was 6.4mm crl and 20.5 mm gestacional sac as of yesterday 6+ 6 weeks. But as I said no heart beat could be confirmed. I have googled to infinity and back as you can imagine to try and figure out why🤯

Also just looked at my Nov 19 MMC paperwork, crl at 8 w+3 days was 4.6mm and no yolk sac was seen, so I am comforting myself that the fact that at leadt measurements are in line with gestacional period is a positive sign.

@Doremifasol yes we’re exactly the same as I was 6+6 yesterday. I’m sorry but we weren’t given any measurements. She just told us they were spot on for where they would expect them to be.

It’s such a hard process and my heart goes out to you @foodiefil and @chocolate336 x

I’m a day behind you @Doremifasol and @MF1981, not having many symptoms either except for fatigue and bloating. I have another scan a week on Monday so trying to keep calm and not overthink (lol) 🙏🏻

@cher1981

Such a hard process! Thank you! Good luck

Thank you @cher1981 ❤️

@MF1981 huge congrats! Twins..very exciting! Can you remind me what age you are and if you did pgs testing please? I'm preparing for a transfer this month.

Hey @hopefully21 sure - I’m 39 (for the next few weeks anyway) and we didn’t do pgs testing as this was our first round. Had we struggled with this round we would have considered it for the next round.

@MF1981 that's amazing. 1st time luck with 2! Great news!!!

sensitive post

Now 9dp5dt, and 2 days before AF is due:

@Sunbird24 congratulations!

Thank you @hopefully21

Great news @Sunbird24 !!!

@MF1981 huge congratulations to you, I think I’d fall on the floor hearing twins! But wow, I think it’s great news!

@Sunbird24 congratulations too 💕

Thanks @IVFat43 !

@Sunbird24 Yey! That’s a super strong line, congrats ❤️

I am now bleeding, so I guess that's it. Saying goodbye to my fourth pregnancy. This is too hard and I don't know how to cope. 😭

@Doremifasol aw lovely x I’m so sorry to hear that. Have you rung your fertility clinic about it? It might not be the worst and they could do a scan to see what’s happening 🙏🏻 Sending you a big virtual hug.

Oh @Doremifasol I’m so sorry, that’s devastating. Hope you can take some time out from life, work etc to grieve

@Doremifasol I’m so sorry. Definitely contact your clinic - I had quite a lot of spotting over the weekend so they may just get you in for another scan x

Thanks all, I have a scan at EPU tomorrow afternoon so we'll see.
Weirdly enough working atm helps me to focus on something else other than this sad event.
@MF1981 hope your spotting stops and is nothing to worry about.
I am not sure mine can be described as spotting as it was defo heavier than that but at the same time still nothing on my pad, only when I wipe.
I am praying this time I don't need D&C, that's all.

If it’s not heavy enough to need a pad I’d say there’s still hope, but totally understand that it can be easier mentally/emotionally to prepare for the worst. Crossing everything for you @Doremifasol.

@Doremifasol I completely agree with @Sunbird24 - the clinic told me that if it doesn’t fill a pad then it shouldn’t be cause for concern. But I completely understand why you would be feeling this way and I’m sure I would be the same if my spotting was any worse than it is. Mine is defo visible on a panty liner but is mainly brown with a hint of pink when I wipe (sorry if tmi)

Thanks ladies your support is invaluable❤️