Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

News

Dispatches . Russel brand .

1000 replies

fabmaccawhackythumbsaloft · 16/09/2023 16:25

I actually like Russel brand . And I don't think he's ever hidden what he used to be in his heyday. He's always been very open about his drug use, and promiscuity.

I read his first book . I watch his videos on fb , and while I don't always agree with him, he seems to have totally overhauled his lifestyle, attitudes, is into yoga, self care, seems to be a decent husband and father .

Is this newsworthy ? Young famous comedian in heyday slept with lots and lots of women , consensually he says ?

Hes never hidden it.

On drug misuse I alWays had time for his views that it should be dealt with as a medical issue not a criminal one

What's the news story ?
I always feel like there is much glee and salivating before the media try and knock someone down.
I don't think this is a huw edwards where people would be shocked at him trying to pick up young women behind his wife's back

It seems that brand has settled down , lives a fairly mundane lifestyle and is happy with his choices .

Or am I completely missing something?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
24
Ramalangadingdong · 17/09/2023 01:25

wheresmymojo · 16/09/2023 22:50

I have to leave this thread now, it's beyond my ability to stay sane as someone who has been raped and sexually assaulted and read these comments

Hope you are ok.

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:25

bombastix · 17/09/2023 01:23

Ignore that alleged crimes. Would any of you be content to leave your 16 year old daughter with this guy? And if not, why not?

Wouldn't be happy to leave her with 99% of men under 70 to be quite honest

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:25

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:22

Well then mate, you should know better than anyone.

Know what? That the OP is posting contradictory statements all through this thread?

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:30

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:25

Know what? That the OP is posting contradictory statements all through this thread?

Know better than trying to exercise my self assessed intellectual superiority and anger at RB, and men of his ilk by attacking some woman who posts on MN to be honest.

But in reality what you do is none of my business mate.

So crack on I suppose.

CarolDunne · 17/09/2023 01:31

Oh my god this is clearly his pr company

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:37

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:30

Know better than trying to exercise my self assessed intellectual superiority and anger at RB, and men of his ilk by attacking some woman who posts on MN to be honest.

But in reality what you do is none of my business mate.

So crack on I suppose.

That's a fucking stretch! I am not angry at Russell Brand. I do despair of the level of defending of rapists on MN, howeve.

But then that is your agenda on this thread. As you said:

"These women need to go to the police, not the journos.

Well the one who alleges rape and the one who alleges sexual assault certainly do."

They can't magically coulda/shoulda back in time to do what you say they should've done 20 or whenever years ago now.

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:40

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:37

That's a fucking stretch! I am not angry at Russell Brand. I do despair of the level of defending of rapists on MN, howeve.

But then that is your agenda on this thread. As you said:

"These women need to go to the police, not the journos.

Well the one who alleges rape and the one who alleges sexual assault certainly do."

They can't magically coulda/shoulda back in time to do what you say they should've done 20 or whenever years ago now.

Behave yourself and read everything I wrote before further addressing me.and expecting a response.

Of course that's what they should have done. They will get fuck all justice twenty years later telling their stories to journos via actors.

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:42

Yes, as I said before. Erm, Harvey Weinstein?

MidnightMeltdown · 17/09/2023 01:43

Pasithean · 17/09/2023 01:17

Can we not show some respect. He is a husband, father, son. What has all this done to them.? He has NOT been found guilty by a jury. He probably won’t get a fair trial now. If it comes to that.
Can you not hold your venom til then.

my DH has a friend accused of rape . It is with the cps now. He had lost his home family and business. It has killed his mental health . He has also lost an elderly relative who was previously in excellent health . The stress and shock was too much.

thid is the most horrible thread . Did people not learn from the thread where various names were being slandered before Huw was named as the suspect.

Sorry, no. I didn't respect Russel Brand even before he was accused of rape.

Your DHs friend has nothing to do with this.

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:44

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:42

Yes, as I said before. Erm, Harvey Weinstein?

Whose accusers were Hollywood actresses, yes what about him?

Any real world comparators you'd like to offer for my consideration?

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:46

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:44

Whose accusers were Hollywood actresses, yes what about him?

Any real world comparators you'd like to offer for my consideration?

Ew, you really were projecting before with that bizarre remark accusing me of "trying to exercise my self assessed intellectual superiority".

Have a blessed day.

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:48

greenhydrangea · 17/09/2023 01:46

Ew, you really were projecting before with that bizarre remark accusing me of "trying to exercise my self assessed intellectual superiority".

Have a blessed day.

Goodnight, God bless love

user1469779776 · 17/09/2023 01:57

Nothing in that documentary shocked me as he has been open about his past, except 16 year olds following and riding much older men. At 16 I was dating boys my own age but also studying for exams for my future. Where were the parents I'd like to know

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:58

I think its very sad that these women only felt safe to come forward when approached by reporters following RB's 'recent online success' and didn't feel able to do so when he was a big name in Hollywood

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 02:00

user1469779776 · 17/09/2023 01:57

Nothing in that documentary shocked me as he has been open about his past, except 16 year olds following and riding much older men. At 16 I was dating boys my own age but also studying for exams for my future. Where were the parents I'd like to know

Hope riding is a typo..

ExNorfolk · 17/09/2023 02:02

People saying “oh the women raped and abused by the famous celebrity with the aggressive well funded lawyers should have gone to the police” might want to take a look at this diagram.

Dispatches . Russel brand .
Quirkyme · 17/09/2023 02:02

@HotSince82

I thought that for a second too but I think she meant exactly what she said. Vulgar.

inadarkwood · 17/09/2023 02:03

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 01:58

I think its very sad that these women only felt safe to come forward when approached by reporters following RB's 'recent online success' and didn't feel able to do so when he was a big name in Hollywood

RB has not been a big name in Hollywood for well over a decade. Guess what happened in between then and now? They call it "MeToo."

ExNorfolk · 17/09/2023 02:06

Again, people wondering why victims attacked by rapists and sexual abusers don’t go to the police, or get far when they do go to the police can have a look at this.

Thankful to the journalists who spent two years working on this and in awe of the bravery of the victims of Brand.

disgusted by the excusers, minimisers, apologists for this man.

Dispatches . Russel brand .
HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 02:07

inadarkwood · 17/09/2023 02:03

RB has not been a big name in Hollywood for well over a decade. Guess what happened in between then and now? They call it "MeToo."

Yes but many of the offences happened prior to his Hollywood career and marriage to KP.

We are years after Me too movement now too...

He's a relative nobody now so it's just sad they had to seemingly wait for his celebrity to die down and a slow news day to come forward l.

inadarkwood · 17/09/2023 02:09

ExNorfolk · 17/09/2023 02:02

People saying “oh the women raped and abused by the famous celebrity with the aggressive well funded lawyers should have gone to the police” might want to take a look at this diagram.

Exactly.

user1469779776 · 17/09/2023 02:10

Having sexual intimacy with....is that better

HotSince82 · 17/09/2023 02:12

user1469779776 · 17/09/2023 02:10

Having sexual intimacy with....is that better

Well, seeing as you have no knowledge of the situation re sexual position its possibly more accurate and certainly less vulgar

Many thanks for correcting yourself.

fabmaccayaddayadda · 17/09/2023 02:23

HatThatWearsYou · 17/09/2023 00:57

@FrogsLegs111 Agreed, which is very sad.

OP, for what it's worth I do believe you were raped and I am really so very sorry that happened to you.

I do hope you get help for your issues and I really wish you'd be more of a supporter for your fellow woman when you post though.

Edited

Name changing so couldn't be arsed to type the full thing out again but yes I have late disseminated Lyme disease , been very very I'll and so been on here more as been housebound mostly .

I've also been a rape victim. Had a first date and clearly was very naive . Was one of my first internet dates . 2015. Can't even remember his name now .

I'm also a pc . A woman . As much as you dont want I believe that , I'm not some fantasist. I don't really care what you think . I post a lot over night due to shifts and insomnia due to shifts ,

I used to drink quite a bit , I posted about it here , but I also have another condition which has rendered me absolutely t total for months . I've lost over a stone in weight ! I can't face the thought of alcohol. I'm on over 20 tablets a day and can barely eat let alone drink poison, the ,ost I drink is water, smoothies and pro biotics .

I used to post a lot , as a cop, advising dv victims and wives of drunk drivers worried their pissed up hubbys wouldn't get given a blanket in the cells .

Mn changed a lot . I got weirdly stalked both on the boards and in rl so I stopped . I tried to nm but still got spotted because apparently I have a distinctive posting style . I had a really long break . Came back , but man has got much bigger and changed a lot.

I was outed by a banned poster the other day . Unnerved me . So I am going to stop posting again. I can't name change because I'm still recognisable. I used to have loadsa munsnetters on my fb . When it was friendlier and smaller. I shut fb down when I got stalked in rl . You can believe whatever you like , I can't control that. But I was , I think, a force for good on here , sat up all night once with a victim of dv, hand holding her through the procedure in reporting it to police . I was a proud cop and really did try and help people for nothing . Because I could ! I can't now. And I'm too tired and too ill to keep defending myself all the bloody time . I'm really too tired .

I joined the job really late in life so I was determined it would t change me . And it didn't . I'm still a dick . A naive , believing in people , believing in good , stupid dick ! But this place has really really altered as it's got bigger and bigger . I documented my journey to become a cop on here ! Way back when . I got a lot of support . This place felt small . I had posters on fb . I was on the fb group . I went to meet-ups . I met individual posters for coffee ! It was a different experience. It's not like that now. I haven't moved with the times . And that's dangerous.
My ex used to read my posts on here and used to get really angry with me . He said one day this place would be responsible and cited in a divorce . I think that's actually happened since then . We split and I carried on posting . I wish I hadn't .
Anyway derailed . But I need a serious sabbatical. I'm too open . And it's not good .

QueenBitch666 · 17/09/2023 02:39

fabmaccawhackythumbsaloft · 16/09/2023 17:06

I've just read the article in full.

It doesn't surprise me. Hedonistic man with lots of money, fame, adoration thinks he can do what the fuck he wants and get away with it.

But surely to god this should have been reported earlier. People saying they were in fear of losing jobs , millions of excuses for not saying something when it was an "open secret "

I'll watch the programme . The lady in America is very convincing, and the texts after . Awful. He was out of control and people were turning the other cheek by look of it. They are surely complicit in the making of this situation. But his actions are his alone .

I do think trial by media is wrong . It serves nothing . If the women in this article want justice they should do what other women in that position do and inform the correct authorities to investigate not splash it all over the media which to some degree doesn't help their case.

Inform the correct authorities. That'll help when rape has practically been decriminalised

Dispatches . Russel brand .
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.