vera, your post, the one that you've republished... it's a bit of a crock, you know.
it's SO insulting to so many people who use MN. you know that it's NOT TRUE that people who can't have children, have a miscarriage or stillbirth are responsible, and shame on you for saying it. but is suppose trampling all over their grief is okay because you were making a spurious point?
afaik, no-one is holding the McCanns responsible for what's happened at all, nor has anyone done for days. some people, myself included, were questioning some of the over-identifying of MNers but no-one's saying the parents were responsible at all and it's shitty of you to suggest that they do.
and if the over-identifyers could actually explain themselves without going all huffy and insulting then we might have got further with understanding the many different types of people who post on here. but no one this morning seems to have taken account of the long conversations that took place last night, they've just started posting where they left off. tbh, if the McCann's do find themselves on MN reading these threads at some point in the future there's every chance they'll find all the 'any news?' and speculation over the whereabouts of their daughter very distasteful indeed.
and now i might go and post on LL's thread, lighting a candle as it were for the wee missing girl. but i'll post once, because more than that would be weird. how many times do you need to say 'it's terrible'? it is terrible, fucking terrible.