Very glad to have found this thread! I'm a lawyer (not a criminal one!) on mat leave with a 16 month old and a 12 week old so am obsessed in between nappy changes but DCs are too little to discuss it and none of my friends seen to have been following it!
I also did a masters at the university of stellenbosch in South Africa. It's an Afrikaans university so meet plenty of Afrikaner men with the same gun love as OP
My 2p - definitely guilty but I'm swithering at the moment re intent
I think OP is blending fact and fiction here. I think that Reeva was using the ipad, as he said. I think she had come over and was being fairly lovey dovey re Valentine's Day. Had brought her present etc. OP wasn't really feeling it/she was niggling him. Not sure where the relationship was going.
They went to bed, Reeva started looking at the ipad. Found that OP had been looking at porn. Was annoyed - she is religious/was over for a romantic evening. An argument ensued. There's something with the phones that we've not quite got to yet. I think she took her phone and OP's into the toilet with her. To look at what he had on that phone - this is the one that OP "can't remember" the pass code for. She locked herself in the loo with her phone and his. There maybe more porn on that phone - maybe he was looking at gay porn or something more "unusual" and OP was embarrassed and angry. Worried about her telling people and his image being affected. Even if not, I think he just took exception to her telling him he couldn't look at porn - she's annoying him anyway.....he's not that in to her. She wants a different type if relatij ship than him - perhaps pushing fir some commitment
OP lost the plot at this stage and told her if she didn't open the door, he'd shoot it open (or shoot her?) and to get the fuck out of his house. This is when she started screaming for help out the window as she knew she couldn't open the door and get out as he was on the other side. So she started screaming out the window. OP then starts shooting......
So, the issue is that the prosecution have led all of their evidence and nothing about his phone etc. obviously the defence won't be dealing with it but this is what I think probably happened.