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Fledglings May 2021 thread: MAYbe we’ll keep our routines going as the outside world opens up 😊

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halfhope · 30/04/2021 16:26

Welcome fledglings to May’s Flylady thread – many, many thanks to ED for her expert guidance through April 2021.

All are welcome and especially Newbies. Don’t be shy in making yourselves known because we are a friendly bunch.
We follow Flylady’s system for house and sanity maintenance which is based around 5 room zones spread over the month. There is a weekly quick home clean in the midst of more thorough zone cleaning. I am an aging fledgling who really should be more proactive about following the plan but to be frank I enjoy the natter and good company more than I enjoy cleaning. Every day I will be checking in and giving the ‘flight plan’ for the day with links to the Flylady site. You can join Flylady on her site for email updates but she does like to send a lot out, just so you know!
The most importantist thing to know is that you are NEVER behind – just do what you can when you can. Many of us post ta da lists as we cross items off our [never-ending] to do lists.
You may find the following acronyms along the way (adapted below from ED’s useful list from April)
LOL = load of laundry
S&S = swish and swipe, a quick daily clean of the toilet and sink
PO3 = power of 3. When motivation is on the low side or you’re overwhelmed just pick 3 things at a time and do them
DNLMS = did not lose my shit
Ned = our mythical mate who helps with the laundry
Pointy stick —-> = for when a fledgling needs a motivational prod
The naughty corner = a relaxing haven where we hang out when motivation is low or when life becomes overwhelming. Usually enticing food is left there with squishy cushions.
KCC – (Keep calm corner) these are little stories, photos, memes, off-topic questions, just to keep us all distracted from the general tedium of lockdown life. Feel free to chip in.

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Stilllivinginazoo · 19/05/2021 15:09

Oh dear sing.pleased morning was good tho!

Quiet here today

Yada
More wash up,dusting,wiping done in kitchen
3LOL wash,dry,folded and put away
Litter tray picked
Lower floors swept
Working my way across locating dining table surface(1/3 way there.its slow as need find homes for "stuff" and wash up random dusty stuff)
Took dd2 out as requested for walk in sunshine.11/2 hrs later(I was pleased she wanted to go,but was thinking how am I ment get stuff finished if I'm not even at home?!)
Late lunch

I really need to do some more clearing but I've hit a slump.very very tired and I need go get lil zoo in ten then organise a quick snack/drink before she heads off out dd1 to walk their dog!

StillUpholding · 19/05/2021 16:10

I’m also in a slump Zoo. The house feels grubby and I keep spotting things that need done but have not actually managed to do much of them yet. You’ve done lots though!

Happy Birthday to Mr Foxes!

Ooh lots of lovely plans Sing

Can you leave some of your crocheted masterpieces to keep us cozy in the naughty corner please Hills? Ta.

Ta Das:
🌸 beds made
🌸 s&s x 2
🌸 2 x LOL - I am now back on top of the laundry 🙌🏻
🌸 sorted out huuuge pile of clean washing and put it all away. We now all have clean pants and socks in the correct place again
🌸 DW emptied and set off, and some dishes hand washed
🌸 bit of dusting in the boudoir, landing and dressing room
🌸 attacked sticky glass rings and finger prints on various upstairs surfaces, paintwork and light switches with anti vac wipes
🌸 tidied up my dressing room including 2 drawers (underwear and pjs)
🌸 spread out DD’s shopping list game to dry after it was a victim of spillage number 1 this morning
🌸 popped to corner shop for bread, milk etc and aero
🌸 had DSis round for a cuppa inside She brought me lovely flowers and assured me her house is just as much of a pit Smile
🌸 played some games with DD and showed the cats some love

The whole place still needs hoovering and I badly need to dust and mop downstairs but I feel a bit more on top of things than I did.

SingToTheSky · 19/05/2021 16:33

Def in a slump here too! DD1 has cheered up now and is FaceTiming her friend, and we’ve unpacked Cagletini’s magnetic calendar (I had wondered about making her a little chart thing with the days of the week etc but much as I love my laminator, I figured a fiver in the Works was well worth the time saved!)

I’d hoped to get the Caglets to help out with tidying up a bit generally, as we will actually be seeing people now, but I’m knackered and seem to have my traditional last-day-of-period nausea/headache 🤬 so I just CBA frankly. Very glad we have no clubs this evening.

THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 19/05/2021 16:48
StillUpholding · 19/05/2021 16:49
foxessocks · 19/05/2021 17:01

I'm a slump too 😞

Dh has opened his presents and we've had tea and cake so that's good. I need to get the dc's pizza in the oven but I don't want to get up .

THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 19/05/2021 17:03

I keep sitting down and getting stuck Sad

shipsforbrain · 19/05/2021 17:40

Hiya, we’ve been to soft play!! I never thought there would come a day that I enjoyed soft play so much😂. I think Esai was confused bless him, he’s never really been around that many people but Orli loved it. I’m hoping to do something like that most days now, although we have play group and stuff I want them to enjoy stuff now it’s back open. Tonight we’re meeting with a friend for dinner out, the DC are coming too. And then hopefully towards the end of the month, maybe in half term, we will be able to visit our family who live about an hour and half from us. I feel like I’m going overboard by doing so much but it’s all so up in the air I want to enjoy it whilst we can!.

Your plans for the greenhouse sound lovely red, my step dad has a green house and allotment and grows a lot of stuff in there, he loves it!. Your vegan salad sounds amazing!.

Brill list sing sorry about the stressful morning! I’m glad that you enjoyed your meet up!

mc glad to hear DH has been pulling his weight! I love cloth nappies, they’re all we use on the DC but I’ve never had any leaks. Much easier than they used to be too now they have so many different ones with poppers and Velcro!. Have you seen the nuby nibbler? You can pop food in that and then baby will mush it up. That might be a good place to start? I’m glad it’s going well so far though!. How adorable is the tiny sporran!

zoo I’m awful with passwords, I’ve wrote them down somewhere safe now, but when I got my phone it was terrible trying to remember things. I hope the plan works with lil zoo bless her❤️

Well done that! Good luck getting more work done!. How exciting, it isn’t long now until your little one comes, how are you feeling?

willow sorry about the rubbish sleep! I hope your shoulder blades are feeling better💐

hills the wool plans sound great, we have a neighbour who knits a lot of stuff and she made some beautiful jumpers for the DC. You can’t beat it!

Happy birthday to your DH foxes!

I’m also in a slump, I really need to get out of it, the boat needs a clean and I need to do some coursework but I have no oomph in me!

halfhope · 19/05/2021 17:49

😳I was just about to say that I haven't achieved much today except to clean Ds's room but I see 😁 this appears to be a common theme around here. I think we should just write off Wednesday. Happy slump day everyone 🎉🥳

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THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 19/05/2021 18:15

Write of Wednesday

That has a ring to it

It could be a weekly event ...

THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 19/05/2021 18:15

*off

halfhope · 19/05/2021 18:18

It might be a bit defeatist for the fat fairy but there is a ring if truth to it that 😁

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HillsBesideTheSea · 19/05/2021 19:20

Fat fairy says to adapt the system to your needs....

It counts. Totally!!

I have moved. been feeling like shit breathing wise so decided it was a good idea to go for a walk. Except I am an over achiver and now not only can i not breathe, but everything hurts. Hmm

People decided to feed themselves. Teen has opinions as he is now grabbing his own.

I am about to turn everyone's noise down and crawl into bed.

IWillWashTheGreenWillow · 19/05/2021 19:41

Good plan, Hills.
Sorry about difficult teen Sing, but glad it is resolved.
Ships really please you enjoyed soft play hell. Can I ask about your DS's name - is it pronounced Eees-eye? Or something different. It is lovely, but I'd like to know I'm reading it right in my head.

That, at eleventy-three weeks pregnant you're allowed to sit down and get stuck, both literally and figuratively!

Thinking of which, Thunder, how's DD today?
Zoo, hope, up, foxes, ED, dancing, Red, MrsTidy, SC etc and so forth - I am totally in for Write Off Wednesday, at least once a month

Ta da
❤️ Phone call
🧡 Drove to Temple Fortune without LMS - no mean feat on the M25 followed by the North Circular.
💛 Podiatrist v pleased with DS3's increasing strength and balance skills
💚 Podiatrist looked at my Poorly Foot. Sensibly explained what was wrong, strapped up poorly toe and gave me orthotic inserts for extra support until it's better. Should have seen him in the first place! I am walking without a limp or pain in my foot for the first time since November. The only issue now is that all the muscles that had been trying to compensate and keep me upright are aching from the change to correct balance!
💙 Trip to Tesco to ensure there was food til Tuesday

I am going to bed as soon as humanly possible.

halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:01

Indeed Hills!!!

Looks like Poorly Foot is much better now Willow - I'm so glad for you.

I'm off to watch New Amsterdam which is a medical drama set in New York. One of the doctors is limping so I'll be thinking of you Willow.

Write-Off Wednesday is coming to a close so be sure to mentally acknowledge all the things that might have been done today but weren't and put them to the back of your mind or list.

I STILL haven't done the home bleurgh/blessing. Nor the zone cleaning. Grin

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HillsBesideTheSea · 19/05/2021 20:06

Sodding Wednesday. THere are now 3 people shouting at their devices. two of them could put their god damn hearing aids in! ffs. Tempted to threaten to turn the internet off... that'd serve them all right.

Dancingtomusic · 19/05/2021 20:20

Big slump here since sunday.

Write off wednesday is a great idea.
My head is all over the place. Didnt get job. Glad but disappointed. Sorry for lack of personals. I dont know whats wrong with me. Pms i think.

Waves to everyone. Big hugs 💖

Stilllivinginazoo · 19/05/2021 20:20

write off Wednesday
LOVE IT

halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:25

Dancing sorry to hear that you didn't get that particular job but the win was a good online interview and I'm sure there will be other jobs in the future. Take all the time you need.

Looks like the naughty corner is going to be busy tonight - thanks for opening it zoo [shashays in bearing doritos, tonic water and gin] Gin

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halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:30

DH has just asked me if I'm meant to be leading the troops [fledglings] this week and I said 'It's for the month and the verb to lead is being used very loosely indeed Grin '

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halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:31

zoo - what's a WOW bar? Panics.

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halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:33

God I'm stupid - Write Off Wednesday bar.

I was actually googling WOW

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halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:35

and found this : www.thewowbar.com/

Which is a blow dry bar in Minneapolis

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halfhope · 19/05/2021 20:35

They have a plan for staying gorgeous in the pandemic apparently

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HillsBesideTheSea · 19/05/2021 21:19

well it is important hope