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February Flying for Fledglings, No More CHAOS here

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ExpletiveDelighted · 30/01/2020 17:14

Welcome to February! This is a friendly ongoing thread where we follow (n some cases, very loosely) the Flylady method for sorting out our homes and lives!

Newbies are always welcome here! It’s a long running thread so please don’t worry if we appear cliquey. There’s a lot of chatter and support for all sorts of things, alongside the housework stuff.

Every day I will post a link to the Flylady launch pad, which is where you can access the information for that day - babysteps, missions, daily focus etc. But if you’re confused about anything, please ask!

Check out the website too - but we suggest not signing up for the millions of emails.

The great thing about Flylady is that you jump in where you are. Everything you do is progress. Don’t worry about not “keeping up”. Any achievement, however small, means progress.

More info to follow.

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LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 09:01

Hope DD feels better soon kt and that the boss was ok about you having to take the day off. It’s so so hard juggling sick kids and work, I don’t miss those days!

TooStressyTooMessy · 31/01/2020 09:12

Morning everyone.

Lane, thank you for a lovely January thread SmileFlowers.

Expletive, thanks for taking on February BrewCake.

Brilliant news about exam results!

Also glad you are feeling a tiny bit better Lisette.

Yes, balancing work and unwell kids can be so, so difficult. Hope your DD feels better soon KT.

Have a great morning Willow!

Big wing flaps to everyone else.

Just back from school run. Have a few bits to do today, phone calls etc. Hoping to get home bleugh done around them, or at least some of it. Also must do a laundry catch up.

Stilllivinginazoo · 31/01/2020 09:17

KT hope poorly beans feeling better soon
I see in BBC news website voice Peppa pig is changing after Harley who has voiced her 13 years is leaving the show!
Hope you aren't subjected to too many shows that drive you to edge

Willow there should be a non neurotypical family mag.id buy it if contained tips and features on managing the differing needs of everyone!!enjoy the friend catch up.i have a friend with 10 DC,aged 25-11years,I had 4 24-12yrs so we compare notes,ages and stages and lots sympathy for tough bits.i only wish I'd known her sooner

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 09:19

Oh gosh. Cagletini has just got into Peppa. I swore she wouldn’t but it was right next to the (far superior) Ben and Holly on Netflix. Damn pig.

I’m not sure I’m going to sleep after all. FML.

Tinselette1940 · 31/01/2020 09:25

I love Ben and Holly. I'm more of an elf myself, I think. I love Nanny Plum.

Ds loved Thomas the Tank engine. I despaired about the books and would try to skip pages but he knew them by heart.

Stilllivinginazoo · 31/01/2020 09:29

Got interrupted mid post by phone ringing as I was posting and I seem to have posted too soon!

Lane thanks for January,hope DD ok.bloody awful watch them.suffering at a young age.dd2 getting crippling backache days 1-2 now.heat pads from poundshop stuck in back trousers are her friend...

E.D thanks taking on February

Lisette hope temp downs a sign illness has peaked

Emergency trip to vet with cossima cat last night.has cat flu when we got her and temp changes cause flare ups.poor baby was so congested was breath through her mouthSad
Anti inflammatory syrup in a syringe for next 7dats and powder added to her water to loosen mucus means we need quarantine her so no one else drinks that!D's happy her permenant resident in his room.need get littertray and extra food/water bowls shortly

Tada
Worry extensively over EHCP instead sleeping
Try arrange lifts for next week as school have looked at draft and think he would be a good fit.so far I can only get help Monday and both dp and dd1 have shifts that aren't negotiable and make them both unable to help

Feed cats/do meds
Feed everyone else
Wash on
Pack up for DP
Snacks for dd2
Ring gp and book vaccines for D's as school are rolling out boosters according email I had
Told needs asthma review,so booked that too
Wash in drier,more in
Wash up
Sweep lower floors

Need go get tray and bowls for cossima now

THAT90sBITCH · 31/01/2020 09:31

Omg i do not miss having to endure hours and hours of bacon face when dc4 used to get up daily at 3am Hmm

Has anyone seen scottish peppa pig on youtube?

Stilllivinginazoo · 31/01/2020 09:32

We liked Ben and Holly,Fifi and the flower tots was dd2 favourite,numberjacks and alpha blocks,rotary the racing car.mr men was loved by them,hated by me as I recall the original series!!lil zoo loved balamory,tinga tales and oddly pink panther cartoons!!

Stilllivinginazoo · 31/01/2020 09:33

*roary,not rotaryBlush

Stilllivinginazoo · 31/01/2020 09:33

that bacon faceGrin

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 09:37

Ugh Thomas is sooo annoying. I loved them as a kid but it did not stand the test of time for me at all. Funny how some nostalgia makes you happy to share (Fantasia for example! Will never forget the excitement when that finally got released on DVD and I could show DD1 who was 4!) and others just don’t feel the same as an adult.

It really sucks being female zoo :( she doesn’t seem to be in pain with them yet but hopefully the nausea isn’t going to get too much worse.

I haven’t moved yet but DS is now getting on with his maths. I’m really glad I’m finding it easier to get that stuff prepped over the weekend now as it means he can just do it.

THAT90sBITCH · 31/01/2020 09:40

Does anyone else find if you read a book say a thomas book, you read it in the voice of the tv programme?

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 09:45

Ugh Roary. No. Fifi. Also no.

I love Nanny Plum. And Gaston. Wise Old Elf is cool too. He and Plum are blatantly doin’ it. :o

Anyone ever see something called The Big Knights? That’s a nostalgia thing that did stand the test of time for me - my kids love it! Similar in style to Peppa/Ben and Holly, I think the same composer too. Sir Boris and Sir Morris, Sir Horace the dog and my personal fave, Sir Doris the hamster :o

I really should stop waffling and actually get on with stuff but I can’t see it happening. I have zero motivation.

February Flying for Fledglings, No More CHAOS here
Tinselette1940 · 31/01/2020 09:53

Yes that! I think the way the sentences were constructed lent to the monotonous voice!

Tinselette1940 · 31/01/2020 09:56

🤣 I did not realise Scottish Peppa Pig was satirical. I thought I was going to listen to a regular show in Doric/Scots. That's cheered me up.

KTCluck · 31/01/2020 09:57

thanks all. She seems ok in herself and temp is down a bit. It's been peppa pig and cocomelon on YouTube so far, which I can live with. However the problem with YouTube is the suggestions - so many videos of spoilt kids opening shed loads of plastic crap that I really don't want her watching. Thankfully it's all been interspersed with some colouring and painting

more Ta Das:
Made the bed
Carried some crap upstairs
Finally made the phone call I've been procrastinating over for 5 months Halo

Fingers crossed for Monday Zoo Hope cat is on the mend.

I def do that that

Tinselette1940 · 31/01/2020 10:02

KTCluck I'm glad your little one has a lower temperature, poor love.

THAT90sBITCH · 31/01/2020 10:02

Oh i should have mentioned scottish peppa pig is not for littlies!

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 10:23

ta da
✅marked one page of maths (using calculator 😳)
✅sent DD a screenshot of senco’s email saying she could have a toilet pass, as she’s not been given it yet 🙄
✅messaged a tattoo artist for a quote 😱 designed one (I say designed, it’s just words)

THAT90sBITCH · 31/01/2020 10:53

Ta da

School run and shit
Wash on
Dryer on
Ordered trainers for dd

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 13:11

Eeeeek! My tattoo appt is booked! Not till late March sadly but still. Only 50 sleeps to wait :o

Zoo wow I just read back and saw about the school, that’s exciting! How does DS feel about trying somewhere, will you take him with you to look?

KT wow huge well done for making the phonecall!

DH and I are so insanely unmotivated today. He’s washed up. I have vaguely supervised some home ed. Meh.

I really really need to get DS’ work sorted. The thing with the way we are working at the moment - this term we’ve introduced the “country of the week” and “person of the week” - is that it means we really need to make sure it’s all finished by Friday so it doesn’t carry over and mess up the following week. POTW is new this week and due to having these courses (which hadn’t started when I was setting up the geography stuff) I’ve not got the worksheets sorted in full yet.

Must crack on. Cagletini is asleep after screaming the place down when she got in from nursery.

Bowerbird5 · 31/01/2020 14:30

Sneaks in quietly.
Couldn't sleep last night. tried reading, crossword, IPad, reading. Haven't got a book at the moment as I'm waiting to get another from charity shop/Booths in the series. I only have three more to read and one isn't out until next week. I missed one so I wont to get that next. So far only bought two. Just noticed the library van hasn't called. It only comes every three weeks so wondering if it is on any more.Sad

Tinselette good to hear you feel a little better but take it slow.
All Fed No one dead mode!

Lane ah Cagletini. I bet they love her at nursery. Good you get a little break.

Zoo I wonder if SC is on my wave length with 'snaffly blanket" cosy warm fleece with lots of snaffles on it. (horse bIts to the unhorsey)Grin
Poor DD I hated mine at that age. You feel so grim and achey at least people are a bit more open about discussing them. My mum left a little book on my bed. Then asked a few days later if I had read it and she used to be a NURSE! my cousin was the same age so we could have a moan if they came down(80miles away) for the weekend.

KT Star hope little one improves soon.

Such a lot of poorly people this winter.
Back a bit better now dosed up and wondering if I can avoid Osteo as I am trying to get my money stable. I really need to stop paying myself back for the kitchen as it has played havoc with my current account. Money I am owed should come through on Sunday as I finally found receipts (in a safe place) and handed them over. So a bit over a hundred I think. Might get back on track. Slept in this morning to 11 because I was awake until 4.30-5am. I hate this. GP says it is just the stress coming out which is good.Doesn't feel good and he upped my meds.only I can't find what I did with them. DH slept all night from about 11 and is now having a sleep because he has been up since 9am. Bless him.Apart from logs I don't think he has done anything oh and hen and cat.
Ta Da
I dusted the chest of drawers at 3.30am then got up and watched tv.
Put washing away. Filled basket with random crap around room mainly clothes 1/2 worn jumpers and cardi's.
Brunch.
Answered emails (they count don't they? If work related?)
Searched ebay with tea for a shelf we need in the kitchen. Found one to collect in Lancaster-doable. Too big damn!

Right back to the bouraky boudoir.

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 15:30

ta da
✅put last worksheet together - one question is writing an acrostic with the person’s name. Stealth creative writing mwahahahaaaa
✅supervised rest of home ed work including printing resources as he was struggling with negative numbers
✅made it out the house (I’m sitting in a quiet corner of the pub about to read through all the handouts from parenting course) so that’s 28 out of 31 days I managed this month :)

Sorry about the sleeping difficulty bower it’s bloody miserable. Hope meds can be tweaked. I haven’t really slept properly since I was on paroxetine for a few months winter 2018/19.

Totally didn’t know a snaffle was an actual thing!!! Every day a (home)school day :o

We3kingsoforientareandabump · 31/01/2020 17:27

Today's ta das
✔️LOL
✔️S&S
✔️ bathed and dressed including make up done properly and hair blow dried and straightened
✔️ all dc up and sorted
College
✔️ school run
✔️ dinner
✔️dishes
✔️LOL
✔️meal plan and shopping list
✔️ swept up
✔️ tidy toys

Now sat doing spellings with one dc, helping another with maths and doing speech therapy home work with another while dh.....plays fifa 🙄

Will do big shop later while big 2 are at cubs.

LaneBoy · 31/01/2020 21:12

Quiet this evening!
DH sounds helpful we3 Hmm FFS.

ta da
✅read all the parenting course stuff (11 pages!) - that’s not even the homework though, I’ll do that over the weekend

Errrr that’s it. Feeling sick/headachey again Hmm not sure if there’s something in the air - DSD has a migraine, DS is still under the weather and DD messaged from school to say she had reflux again which hasn’t happened in a while. They didn’t go to their clubs this evening. I feel slightly more human after a tiny doze. Think I need food now Hmm dry cereal beckons!

Busy weekend dancing wise and I hope we can get some other stuff done too, the clean laundry pile is practically the height of Snowdon and we have some long overdue paperwork to get done.