BlackCat I know exactly how you feel. It all feels a bit overwhelming at times. I think the flylady approach: a list of to dos and then breaking it down into little steps is the way forward. It worked on the house. Just one little step at a time.
I have been distracted by chatting in the village when I was posting a huge pile of cards and then baking for my niece's birthday party and my friend's lunch today. Effectively I have made more mess rather than cleared up mess 
I also made ds a packed lunch when it is the Christmas dinner at school today. [numpty emoticon] I have phoned the school to sort that one out. Thank goodness my dcs go to such a little school and they will deal with these things for us.
So... I need to tidy the kitchen, put on a wash, and then start on my list of bits and bobs above.