Hello.
silversky, welcome. I have an 11m ds and a 3yr dd and although ds does nap, I have horses to do then, so my housework has to be done at other times. What I have started doing is making dinner, dishing up, then while the kids food is cooling, clear up the dinner stuff, wipe down the sides etc, feed everyone, bath kids, get them ready for bed, stick them in front if In The Night Garden while i clear up dining room, get the dishwasher on, put some washing on etc, get them to bed then if I need to hoover, do it straight away. My house is not spotless but it is improving.
I have a confession to make.... I have joined the fledglings thread (blush) however, I am planning on becoming a good housekeeping thread whore, so if you will still have me, I do want to stick around :o
No list today, big, heavy, smelly job to do at the horses (fun)