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What is the most pain you have ever experienced?

354 replies

Rnm62 · 04/10/2022 03:40

Some say tooth pain is one of the worst pains to have.

What would you say the worst pain is you’ve experienced?

OP posts:
AnnaMagnani · 04/10/2022 08:54

It's a tie between gallstones and being bitten by my cat.

There is a massive difference between a small playful bite and scratch that barely breaks the skin, and a scared angry cat fulling crushing his teeth and claws into your hand, with almost instant tendon infection setting in. DH didn't even notice because I passed out and couldn't call for help.

Oh, there was also the week long migraine when I had the flu. I lay still and prayed for death.

itbemay · 04/10/2022 08:56

Tonsillectomy age 30. Worse than childbirth.

Chooksnroses · 04/10/2022 09:02

Nat6999 · 04/10/2022 03:53

Gallstones pain, induced labour with a back to back baby, dental abcess.

All exactly what I was going to say! plus a dying nerve in a front tooth.

PeloFondo · 04/10/2022 09:15

Cauda equina

Carlycat · 04/10/2022 09:19

Double arm fracture with dislocation. Never knew pain like that existed 😭

Seasidemumma77 · 04/10/2022 09:39

Partially rupturing my calf muscle, was beside myself with the pain in the leg. Toothache/abscesses come a close second. I found the 4dc births far less painful in comparison.

Newuser82 · 04/10/2022 09:42

The most pain I have had was after my second c section. The most horrible/uncomfortable thing I have ever had was an endoscopy without sedation.

Rutland2022 · 04/10/2022 09:49

Childbirth was the worst as it went on for 6hrs but I dislocate my knee frequently and that is worse pain but short lived.
Childbirth at least had a positive spin on it so it wasn’t traumatic. But I had continuous contractions from the start so it wasn’t like the books said!

pimlicoanna · 04/10/2022 09:52

Slicing my eye. Childbirth doesn't compare at all to the pain of that

Flowerytray · 04/10/2022 10:06

I trod on something in the sea in Malaysia and it pierced my foot like a knife. Blood everywhere.
It must have injected poison into my foot as iv never experienced pain like it. It went on for an hour then just stopped.
I never found out what it was but the cut had a serrated edge and I think that it could have been a stone fish.

I would much rather give birth than experience this ever again.

k1233 · 04/10/2022 10:08

garlictwist · 04/10/2022 05:30

Out of interest, how did you tear your plantar fascia?

@garlictwist in the most mundane way possible - walking around the side of the house. Ground perfectly flat. Extremely loud bang, instant crippling pain. Unable to weight bare etc

Angelofthenortheast · 04/10/2022 10:29

gallstones

SewhereIam · 04/10/2022 10:39

Having my wisdom teeth removed and the gum being sutured too tightly to let it drain. One side of my face was twice as wide as the other with a massive haematoma. Went back to the hospital in the afternoon as couldn't bear it, was told I was being a drama queen over the phone but told to come in anyway. As soon as I got there they rushed me straight in, took 2 stitches out and the relief was insane. I've had 2 babies and this trumped both births.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 04/10/2022 12:00

Impacted wisdom tooth removal. Norovirus also, but more because I just couldn't stop vomiting and wanted to die. Broken foot (didn't realise at time) came a very close third pure agony.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 04/10/2022 12:01

Plantar fasciitis is also bloody painful too and I'd never have thought that either.

Floralnomad · 04/10/2022 12:02

Frostbite , absolute agony .

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 04/10/2022 12:02

AnnaMagnani · 04/10/2022 08:54

It's a tie between gallstones and being bitten by my cat.

There is a massive difference between a small playful bite and scratch that barely breaks the skin, and a scared angry cat fulling crushing his teeth and claws into your hand, with almost instant tendon infection setting in. DH didn't even notice because I passed out and couldn't call for help.

Oh, there was also the week long migraine when I had the flu. I lay still and prayed for death.

I used to get regular migraines in teens and then when I was in 20s caused by BCP. The pain was awful but when it subsided it was so great that I forgot about it. Even now, someone who asks me about migraines and I say, yes, sledgehammer going into your head continuously. Plus auras and vomiting.

Sistanotcista · 04/10/2022 12:06

OutOntheTilez · 04/10/2022 05:11

Slipped disk in my back 25 years ago. Three weeks of hell before the pain finally started to subside. Every day I thought about crawling in front of a city bus and ending it all. Labor with DS1 lasted about 20 hours and was really really bad, but that at least had a purpose. This back thing, just no.

@OutOntheTilez - I second the slipped disc pain. It was the first and only time in my life when I have seriously considered ending it all.

Gilm0reGirl · 04/10/2022 12:07

First time I stood up after a Caesarean section. I swear the colour still drains from my face when I think about it.

Shmithecat2 · 04/10/2022 12:10

Dental pain - had an issue with a dying molar about a year ago which took 3 months to resolve. Aside from the odd few hours in those months where the anaesthetic masked the pain, I genuinely wanted to die. The whole experience was quite traumatic, including a failed extraction. I have given birth with zero pain relief, and I'd rather do that again than have the pain from my tooth. When the tooth was finally out, I cried with relief.

rubyslippers · 04/10/2022 12:11

Sistanotcista · 04/10/2022 12:06

@OutOntheTilez - I second the slipped disc pain. It was the first and only time in my life when I have seriously considered ending it all.

Yea! My disc ruptured and compressed my sciatic nerve - three weeks of the worst pain I have ever felt
also thought about ending it if I had to live like this forever ?(pre diagnosis)
Morphine didn’t event touch it :-(

I was literally bed bound and had to crawl everywhere
the worst pain in the world

StarsAtElbowsAndFoot · 04/10/2022 12:11

Pilonidal Sinus Abscess

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 04/10/2022 12:14

Infected cyst in my thumb.

If I’d had an axe I’d have chopped my hand off.

BucketofTeaMassiveCake · 04/10/2022 12:15

It was either a perforated eardrum or a boil inside my ear which eventually burst. It felt like my head was under great pressure and about to explode, then I put my head down instinctively on the sore side and then bang! Some fluid poured out. It was during a Bank Holiday weekend so waited until the Tuesday to see a GP which you could fairly quickly in those far off days. I was put on antibiotics for two weeks.

Mommabear20 · 04/10/2022 12:17

Back to back delivery of large baby with no pain relief, he's worth every second of it though ❤️

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