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I'm pissed and in troub;e

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PhoenixSoaring · 20/10/2007 23:07

oh dear

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PeachesMcLean · 20/10/2007 23:58

Kids back tomorrow?

So you've had a night on the piss. No one around to judge. Carry on your three month tomorrow. Kids need you.

ScaryHairy · 21/10/2007 00:00

How old are your children?

smallwhitecat · 21/10/2007 00:00

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PhoenixSoaring · 21/10/2007 00:00

I aM NO WORHT IT

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BurpyErnie · 21/10/2007 00:01

Oh look Phoenix shit happens we can't all be perfect 3 Months has just shown you the tip of the ice burgh. Chalk it up to experience. You can do it again. So what happened tonight? What went wrong?

Magdelanian · 21/10/2007 00:01

Please dont take pills your family need you and love you.

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PhoenixSoaring · 21/10/2007 00:02

THAY RE BETTER OFF WITHOUT MEW

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LittleMissDrinksAlot · 21/10/2007 00:02

phoenixSoaring you are not alone, there are lots of lovely people here you can talk to and tell why you feel so bad?

cornsilk · 21/10/2007 00:02

Pheonix I think staying off booze for 3 months is absolutely fantastic - don't beat yourself up about slipping tonight. When you see your chn tomorrow you'll find the strength you need.

PeachesMcLean · 21/10/2007 00:02

Have you finished your glass? Do not get another one. Pour the rest down the sink. Guaranteed to feel good about that tomorrow.

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cornsilk · 21/10/2007 00:03

You can come on again tomorrow and have a good chat about how great your children are pheonix.

colditz · 21/10/2007 00:04

Phoenix, realistically Pissed once in 3 months is downright virtuous. Stop beating yourself up! I got WANKERED last night - doesn't mean I have to do it tonight, or indeed ever again! Out of 90 days, one day of drunkeness does not make you a failure - it makes you a success! For one night drunk, you spent 89 nights sobor! That really is amazing, it's not a failure at all, just your low self esteem making you feel like one.

get water. Go to bed. Sort it out tomorrow.

bossybritches · 21/10/2007 00:04

PS are you stil with us?

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PhoenixSoaring · 21/10/2007 00:05

I am pissiued

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ineedapoo · 21/10/2007 00:06

phoenix you are worth it. Give yourself a big hug and think about the good things in your life

justjules · 21/10/2007 00:07

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colditz · 21/10/2007 00:08

Yes, you are pissed. As are many people tonight, and as I was last night. Being drunk doesn't make you a failure, stop drinking now and go to bed. It's not all or nothing.

bossybritches · 21/10/2007 00:08

Ok so you're pissed & off the wagon but so what ?? you still have 3 months sober behind you- give yourself credit, you've done great.

Large glass of water & another for the bedside table & get some sleep.

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PhoenixSoaring · 21/10/2007 00:08

I cantg cope with any more

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LittleMissDrinksAlot · 21/10/2007 00:09

being pissed is nothing to feel bad about, so what you have been sober for 3 months thats fucking amazing, you should be proud of that, give yourself a big pat on the back and get to bed...

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LittleMissDrinksAlot · 21/10/2007 00:10

what cant you cope with?
what made you feel you cant cope?

Magdelanian · 21/10/2007 00:10

No way! Dont want to go into too much but I've experienced feeing like this once. Had a suicide very close to me. You have your children and you are there mum that they love. Your life if valued because you are a mum. Please see that. I would devastate your childrens lives.

cornsilk · 21/10/2007 00:11

Pheonix you are stronger than you think - you didn't drink for 3 months and everyone agrees that's something to be really proud of.