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Update on misdees hubby Peter :(

245 replies

lisad123 · 26/07/2007 17:20

I have had misdee on the phone and she has asked me to update you all.

Peter has been put on the urgent list for a new heart
However, he will only be on the list for 3 weeks. The docs are saying he cannot live on his current VAD machine longer than 3 weeks due to too much build up in his tubes After those 3 weeks they will have to put in a new VAd machine which means more open heart surgery, 3 months recovery and carers and misdee retraining if he wants to come home. He will also be taken off the transplant list for atleast 3 months.

Peter is also considering refusing to let them replace his VAD as he is tired and knows how hard it will be on him and the family. Misdee is very upset by the news and is hoping that a new heart comes in the next 3 weeks so they dont have to consider any options. Peter is the only one waiting for a heart right now but she has told me that no heart transplants have happened in the last 3 months
This is a devastating blow for them, as they were hoping urgent list for longer as it increases his chance of transplant.

Sparkleygothcat (misdee's big sis) is away with family but if you want to email me (her lit sis) I will pass on any messages when is ee her tomorrow.

Lisa

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suedonim · 28/07/2007 01:16

What a frightening experience for all concerned, I can only wonder in awe at the courage Misdee and family are showing in the face of this. I'm hoping fervently that something comes up for Peter v soon.

Budababe · 28/07/2007 20:59

Any further news today?

sparklygothkat · 28/07/2007 21:02

I have had no texts today from Misdee so I guess there is no news yet.

Budababe · 28/07/2007 21:03

OK thanks SGK - have been thinking of them.

mamazon · 28/07/2007 21:03

fingers crossed that whatever the DR'S decide it makes Peter a lot better.

can understand misdee's aprehension about appearing on TV, she does so much campaign work already. peter's story is very much an eye opener though so no wonder the press ask for so many interviews.

Nightynight · 28/07/2007 22:51

adding my prayers to everyone else's.
this poor family has been through so much already

WendyWeber · 28/07/2007 22:52

Hoping very much for the best outcome for Peter and the family.

purplemonkeydishwasher · 29/07/2007 17:13

please let there be good news soon!!

Filchymindedvixen · 29/07/2007 17:19

if Peter can be helped by sheer love and positive thinking, I guess we're giving it a bloody good go on here...

Adding my good wishes and keeping everything crossed for you and you lovely family MD xx

Peachy · 29/07/2007 17:19

What a rollercoaster . Justpraying that the right heart come along soon XX

MaryAnnSingleton · 29/07/2007 17:22

lots of kind thoughts coming misdee's way from here xxxx

MadEyeMisdee · 29/07/2007 18:30

i have just quickly skimmed this trhead, and thank you so much for all your lvoe and prayers. means a lot.

on thursday, i had just arrived at the caravan to see my girls, when peter told me the initial news, and my gut instinct was to turn the car around and head back to harefield. i was ready to go,. but my mum made me stay, again on friday morning istill wanted to go back, but then relaised that with my mum with me, lisad on her way there, and sparkly up north i would have no one to help with the kids if a call came in, so made sense to stop there till today.

I am praying that a heart transplant happens in 3 weeks, as that would be brilliant, and am really trying not to think of the replacing of LVAD or its parts, as i dont want this nightmare to carry on.

hunkermunker · 29/07/2007 18:33

Thinking of you, sweetheart - hoping for a new heart for Peter asap xxx

sparkler · 29/07/2007 18:37

Hi Misdee. So good to see you pop up on here. Your family sound wonderful. Keeping everything crossed here for a heart to come soon for Peter. Stay strong. I think you are an amazing lady. xx

MoreTeaVicar · 29/07/2007 19:41

So wish I could make it better for you all. Continue being strong misdee, you are amazing and I pray for that call to come soonest. Hang in there .

littlelapin · 29/07/2007 19:42

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RubySlippers · 29/07/2007 19:43

more of my thoughts and prayers heading your way
take care

Carmenere · 29/07/2007 19:44

I'm praying for you and Peter, Misdee xx

winnie · 29/07/2007 19:50

Thinking of you all x

Budababe · 29/07/2007 20:43

Hugs Misdee. Praying you get that call.

chipmonkey · 29/07/2007 20:47

Praying for you all, Misdee.

BreeVanDerCampLGJ · 29/07/2007 20:50

Much love Misdee.

I went to Mass last night, I prayed like stink for you, so to speak.

chonky · 29/07/2007 20:51

Thinking of you all misdee x

kid · 29/07/2007 20:51

Praying that Peter gets the heart he needs and deserves.

Beauregard · 29/07/2007 20:53

((((hugs misdee)))