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Update on misdees hubby Peter :(

245 replies

lisad123 · 26/07/2007 17:20

I have had misdee on the phone and she has asked me to update you all.

Peter has been put on the urgent list for a new heart
However, he will only be on the list for 3 weeks. The docs are saying he cannot live on his current VAD machine longer than 3 weeks due to too much build up in his tubes After those 3 weeks they will have to put in a new VAd machine which means more open heart surgery, 3 months recovery and carers and misdee retraining if he wants to come home. He will also be taken off the transplant list for atleast 3 months.

Peter is also considering refusing to let them replace his VAD as he is tired and knows how hard it will be on him and the family. Misdee is very upset by the news and is hoping that a new heart comes in the next 3 weeks so they dont have to consider any options. Peter is the only one waiting for a heart right now but she has told me that no heart transplants have happened in the last 3 months
This is a devastating blow for them, as they were hoping urgent list for longer as it increases his chance of transplant.

Sparkleygothcat (misdee's big sis) is away with family but if you want to email me (her lit sis) I will pass on any messages when is ee her tomorrow.

Lisa

OP posts:
PrettyCandles · 27/07/2007 06:34

Oh god, how tough must things get? Can we help in any way?

FoghornLeghorn · 27/07/2007 07:21

Only just seen this. How bloody awful

Thoughts are wih Misdee, girls and Peter as always

LilRedWG · 27/07/2007 08:49

My prayers are with you all.

Hulababy · 27/07/2007 08:52

Thinking of misdee, Peter and the family.

FioFio · 27/07/2007 08:56

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WaynettaSlob · 27/07/2007 08:58

Thinking of you all.......

saffy202 · 27/07/2007 08:58

Thinking of you all Misdee

pointydog · 27/07/2007 09:02

what a tough life - wishing hard for a heart

Highlander · 27/07/2007 09:36

I'm agnostic, but I'm praying now that Peter gets his heart. Big, hopeful vibes coming doon from the Toon.

Leander · 27/07/2007 09:38

hope you get the good news you are waiting for very soon.
Thinking of you all xx

FlossALump · 27/07/2007 09:45

Thinking of you all Misdee and so very much hope that these three weeks bring you the new heart. I hope Peter manages to rally once again and begin to feel more positive again. Such an awful lot for one man and family to go through.

flamingtoaster · 27/07/2007 09:57

My thoughts and prayers are with misdee and her family.

3andnomore · 27/07/2007 10:15

Oh, I am so sorry for misdee, Peter and her family.
My thoughts are with misdee, Peter and the family!

Dinosaur · 27/07/2007 10:23

Sending you best wishes, misdee and peter. Wish I could help .

wurlywurly · 27/07/2007 10:27

dont really know what to say, but our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

usandnosleep · 27/07/2007 10:39

Thinking of you and praying hard, life can be so unfair x

LieselVentouse · 27/07/2007 10:42

Thinking of you all
xxx

purplemonkeydishwasher · 27/07/2007 10:42

I'm praying for you all
xxx

yeahinaminute · 27/07/2007 11:06

Praying really hard for the best possible outcome for Peter and all the family

In our thoughts and prayers xx

mullingitover · 27/07/2007 11:59

Just seen this.
My heart goes out to you all. Praying that Peter gets his heart in the next 3 weeks.

TranquilaManana · 27/07/2007 12:02

oh blimey - sending all the good vibes/wishes/hopes (i dont do religion, sorry) i can muster...

ellasmum1 · 27/07/2007 12:16

Again so to hear this. Praying for Misdee, Peter and the girls.

onehackedoffmuma · 27/07/2007 12:20

Praying for Peter, Misdee and the girls.

xxxxxx

mumlove · 27/07/2007 14:14

Thinking of you all during this time and hopefully some good news in the next 3 weeks.

Miaou · 27/07/2007 14:19

I'm so sorry it's come to this Lisa - what incredible stress they must all be under

I really really hope that a heart becomes available for Peter - if only we could wish it true!

I will be thinking of Peter, Misdee and your whole family over the coming weeks and hope that things work out. Much love xxxxx

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