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Update on misdees hubby Peter :(

245 replies

lisad123 · 26/07/2007 17:20

I have had misdee on the phone and she has asked me to update you all.

Peter has been put on the urgent list for a new heart
However, he will only be on the list for 3 weeks. The docs are saying he cannot live on his current VAD machine longer than 3 weeks due to too much build up in his tubes After those 3 weeks they will have to put in a new VAd machine which means more open heart surgery, 3 months recovery and carers and misdee retraining if he wants to come home. He will also be taken off the transplant list for atleast 3 months.

Peter is also considering refusing to let them replace his VAD as he is tired and knows how hard it will be on him and the family. Misdee is very upset by the news and is hoping that a new heart comes in the next 3 weeks so they dont have to consider any options. Peter is the only one waiting for a heart right now but she has told me that no heart transplants have happened in the last 3 months
This is a devastating blow for them, as they were hoping urgent list for longer as it increases his chance of transplant.

Sparkleygothcat (misdee's big sis) is away with family but if you want to email me (her lit sis) I will pass on any messages when is ee her tomorrow.

Lisa

OP posts:
Pruners · 26/07/2007 20:45

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lisad123 · 26/07/2007 21:09

I will ask about the media thing tomorrow, she was very upset today after the call, and feel i need to give her time to get her head around that first.
I know intentions were good about suggesting boxers family but im certain Sarah would not wish to add anymore pressure to a family that has just lost someone close to them.
If anyone needs to email me my address is [email protected]

sarah also asked me to pass on a thank you to all those that have help with donations, the girls are having a lovely time right now and Sarah has enjoyed a break with the older two girls staying at nannies caravan, although she is back withthem now. Lots of ice cream and treats

Lisa

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singersgirl · 26/07/2007 21:16

So sorry to hear this

SenoraPostrophe · 26/07/2007 21:20

really sorry to hear this.

best wishes, missdee

TheMuppetMuggle · 26/07/2007 21:24

Sorry to hear this news.
AM thinking of your family
xx

Nemo2007 · 26/07/2007 21:30

Please send our love to misdee,peter and the girls. I can not think how they must be feeling, they have had soo much strength in the past couple of years. I hope something positive happens soon!!

noddyholder · 26/07/2007 21:50

Completely inappropriate as expat says although i understand the desperation that grips us all at times like this.It is important to get teh right organ for him

MrsMar · 26/07/2007 21:58

What a sad story, I hope they get a heart soon xxx

ps I'm not sure the boxer chap could donate his heart anyway, different ethnicity. Always makes me realise how important it is for me to carry my donor card and tell my dh I want to help someone if I can when I die.

lionheart · 26/07/2007 22:00

So sorry things are so bad for your family.

imaginaryfriend · 26/07/2007 22:03

An almost intolerable situation for you misdee and Peter. You so deserve some good news.

Thanks for keeping us posted lisa.

sallystrawberry · 26/07/2007 22:09

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onlyjoking9329 · 26/07/2007 22:16

so sorry to hear this, i wish you hope for that phonecall.

katierocket · 26/07/2007 22:17

I don't post much anymore but had to send a message to Misdee about this. God, what to say, you poor things, he's waited so long, surely it must be his turn next.

MrsSpoon · 26/07/2007 22:28

So sorry to hear this, really hope there is some positive news soon.

MoreTeaVicar · 26/07/2007 23:01

So sorry for this news, just when I thought things were looking up. Thinking of you all and praying for the call

LadyOfTheFlowers · 26/07/2007 23:13

im so sorry to hear this and i pray a heart comes for peter soon.
all our love to peter, misdee and family.
Xx

forsale · 26/07/2007 23:32

sorry to hear this, im praying for them all xx

Budababe · 26/07/2007 23:54

Oh no. Will pray that Peter gets the heart he (and his family) so deserve.

electra · 26/07/2007 23:56

thinking of you all. Very much in my prayers xxxx

Frizbe · 26/07/2007 23:57

so sorry to hear this, praying that Peter get a heart in the next three weeks.

oops · 27/07/2007 00:08

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sandcastles · 27/07/2007 01:57

Am thinking of & praying for them all

MrsJohnCusack · 27/07/2007 02:36

oh so sorry to hear this
really praying for a miracle for them all
MrsJC and family x

Flower3554 · 27/07/2007 06:11

Just logged on and seen this.

Misdee Peter and the girls, you're in my prayers. xxx

Trinityrhino · 27/07/2007 06:16

oh god
just seen this
wishing you all the luck in the world
xxx

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