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Not good new regarding Peter

434 replies

MadEyeMisdee · 15/07/2007 09:17

I am sobbing as i type this.

Peter is very ill. there is some damage to his brain, there is a real possibility he wont recover completly this time. The peter I married appears to have gone. Sometimes he comes back, its very distressing.

Hospital team are having a meeting on thursdasy to discuss emergency transplant list. He may be suspended for a few weeks, but as yet we dont know.

I have been told he may not get through transplant as he is very very ill. but for now we need to try and stay positive. Its very hard.

I havent told the children, i cant.

I want a happy ending, but its so far out of reach.

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Ceolas · 15/07/2007 09:34

Thinking of you all and really hoping for that happy ending xxx

alibobins · 15/07/2007 09:36

I've never posted before on your threads about this but have benn following it

All I can do is send you all love and positive vibes.

AttilaTheMeerkat · 15/07/2007 09:40

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

(((((((((((((((((misdee and family))))))))))))

SueW · 15/07/2007 09:40

I'm so sorry to hear this.

I was thinking about you this morning - one of the lead stories at the Timesonline is about automatic organ donation with an opt-out rather than the current opt-in situation.

tullytwo · 15/07/2007 09:41

So so sad to hear this - have always been amazed at your tenacity and strength when I read your posts.

I hope you get positive news back soon.

chikenmother · 15/07/2007 09:42

Stay strong, everyone needs you more than ever. XXX

MadEyeMisdee · 15/07/2007 09:42

thank you for all your kind words, they mean a lot to me right now.

www, i am reluctant to ask for practical help after the last time, so for now i will get by on a prayer.

i have a holiday for the girls on friday, everyone is insisting i go. hopefully i can do it cheaply.

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geekgirl · 15/07/2007 09:44

oh misdee I'm so sorry - - I wish there was something we could do

xx

MadEyeMisdee · 15/07/2007 09:45

you can take my kids on holiday for me?

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saggermakersknockturnalley · 15/07/2007 09:45

Misdee - please let us help.

startouchedtrinity · 15/07/2007 09:45

I'm so sorry to hear this.

MadEyeMisdee · 15/07/2007 09:46

sagger, i dont want backlash.

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Dumbledior · 15/07/2007 09:47

Misdee - you and Peter are in all our thoughts. x

Jas · 15/07/2007 09:47

Thinking of you all this week.

nutcracker · 15/07/2007 09:48

Sorry to hear this Misdee, not sure what happened, think I must have missed a thread.

MrsJohnCusack · 15/07/2007 09:50

there aren't any words Misdee
I am so sorry

ETsmum · 15/07/2007 09:50

I'm another who's never posted, but I've been following your threads about Peter. My thoughts and best wishes are with you and your girls.

MadEyeMisdee · 15/07/2007 09:51

this thread he appears to have had a stroke, and have been told he may not recover. its still early days. but i am destroyed.

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GrannyWeatherwax · 15/07/2007 09:51

sending you positive thoughts

Freckle · 15/07/2007 09:51

Misdee, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. You have been so positive and proactive through all the ups and downs. I'll be praying for a happy outcome.

wannaBe · 15/07/2007 09:54

oh misdee I'm so sorry. I logged on to mn this morning to see if there was any news, just so that it has to be this.

You are in my thoughts often - even dh knows about you/Peter.

Would echo what www said, please shout if there's anything any of us can do.

xxx

escape · 15/07/2007 09:55

Misdee, all our positive thoughts are with you and yours..
You don't 'know' me, but PLEASE let Mners help you if you need it, I'm not sure what you mean by 'backlash' but surely helping another person who wants/needs it can't be wrong can it?, anyone who disagrees is just wrong, wrong wrong

nutcracker · 15/07/2007 09:56

Oh sorry Misdee, I hadn't seen that.

Hope you get some good news soon xxxx

ggglimpopo · 15/07/2007 09:57

Thinking of you Misdee. Stay strong.

WigWamBam · 15/07/2007 09:57

So sorry, Misdee. You're in my thoughts.