Not good new regarding Peter

[MadEyeMisdee]

I am sobbing as i type this.

Peter is very ill. there is some damage to his brain, there is a real possibility he wont recover completly this time. The peter I married appears to have gone. Sometimes he comes back, its very distressing.

Hospital team are having a meeting on thursdasy to discuss emergency transplant list. He may be suspended for a few weeks, but as yet we dont know.

I have been told he may not get through transplant as he is very very ill. but for now we need to try and stay positive. Its very hard.

I havent told the children, i cant.

I want a happy ending, but its so far out of reach.

Misde i am so sorry

Please do accept and ask for help if you need it. You know which Mumsnetters to trust and they in turn know others who can be trusted.

Thinking of you all xxx

misdee and family. My thoughts are with you. XXXX

So so sorry to hear your news
Praying hard and thinking of you all xxx

Misdee I don't know you but am on the due Oct thread with your sister lisad. Nothing really to add to everything that has been said but my thoughts are with you and your family at this awful time xxx

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I send you all my thoughts/wishes and prayers.

I am really sorry to hear this. I hope they find a suitable heart for him soon.

I echo all that's been said on here. Stay strong {{{{hugs}}}

Misdee

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Sorry to read this, I am around this week if you want the girls to come and play here, I know they don't know me but we are quite close to Harefield, I will email SGK.

Misdee, really sorry

thinking of you and the girls misdee xx

You and yours in my thoughts as always misdee xx

....im so sorry to hear abut Peter {{{hugs}}}

Thinking of you and your children Misdee.

I am so sorry Misdee, love to you and your family.

how terrible, i am so sorry.

thinking of you and Peter misdee

Thinking of you all tonight, so very sorry to hear this latest news misdee XXX

Misdee - thinking of you, Peter and the kids. xxx

Thinking of you all xx

Oh Misdee, I'm so sorry.. I saw the candle thread and wondered what had happened it's MO'H. Take care of yourself and your girls.

Thinking of you guys x

So sorry to hear this misdee. Love to you all xxx

Thinking of and praying for you.

Misdee gutted to read this news
I really hope something happens for you, I know it's grasping at straws but oh god I'm just so sorry you are going through this.

Love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxx

hi again.

my little terrors are all in bed and surprsingly all asleep

pter had an echo done today, but was on small screen and unclear, so it needs to be redone tomorrow in the clinic.

things dont seem as bleak now, the situation hasnt changed, and i know things may get worse before they get better, but for now, seeing the care being taken over him, and how attentive the hospital is being, i know he is in safe hands.

he had some neurological tests done earlier, some weakness in his right arm is apparent.

I just cant get my head round the fact he has had to go downhill and quickly for them to consider putting him on urgent list. i am worried about the future, and how we will cope as a family. if peter does remain the same with regards to his brain, then he is going to need a lot more care than before. he is scaringly dangerous as he cant remember what medication he has taken and when. he is insistant he has only been there one night. each day we go over and over what day it is, then he says he has only been there one night. he has threatened to pull his tubes out, says it will bump him up the list, even though he has been told a few times that he is being considered for urgent placing on the list. i am hoping they dont suspend him first, as he needs a heart and quickly.