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THIS IS SNOWKITTEN - MY DH PASSED AWAY YESTERDAY

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snowkitten · 03/04/2010 20:11

Nothig more to say...........

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GypsyMoth · 03/04/2010 20:13

oh,so,so sorry!

dont know you,but really feel for you.

CarGirl · 03/04/2010 20:14

Snowkitten I am so sorry to hear this, I wasn't on your previous thread at all but I know how hard you fought to get help for him

Please take good care of yourself x

liahgen66 · 03/04/2010 20:14

I don't know you either but just wanted to say I am very sorry to hear your news. I hope you have some support in RL.

FabIsGettingThere · 03/04/2010 20:15

Oh love .

I haven't read any of your threads but if you want to talk we will listen.

I am so sorry.

zapostrophe · 03/04/2010 20:15

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CharCharGabor · 03/04/2010 20:16

Oh bloody hell so sorry.

ilovesprouts · 03/04/2010 20:17

so sorry not read your posts tho x

MummyDoIt · 03/04/2010 20:18

Snowkitten, I am truly sorry to hear this.

When you feel ready, there are quite a few of us on here in the same situation. If you need advice, support or just a virtual shoulder to cry one, just say. You are not alone.

Lulumaam · 03/04/2010 20:18

so so so sorry to hear this, so sorry for your loss. wishing you strength, hope you have lots of RL support xx

WorzselMummage · 03/04/2010 20:19

Oh love, I am sorry to read this

theagedparent · 03/04/2010 20:20

So sorry to hear this

Collision · 03/04/2010 20:22

Have just read your other thread.

Am so sorry. Dont know what to say.

How do you feel? We are here if you want to talk.

xx

ThisCharmingFlan · 03/04/2010 20:25

Snowkitten, I'm so sorry to hear this. Is someone there to look after you? As others have said, we're all here if you want to talk.

LittleWhiteWolf · 03/04/2010 20:26

Oh no.
I havent followed your time on here, or seen any threads but my heart goes out to you.

Do you have people around you???

willsurvivethis · 03/04/2010 20:26

Oh sweetheart no way

No words to say...

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snowkitten · 03/04/2010 20:27

thank you for your responses. I feel devastated. I am stunned. he fell down the stairs, sustained a head injury that caused a slow bleed into the brain. if he had not been so ill with alcoholism he would have survived. it is a long story but that is all I ahve hte energy for.

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Lionstar · 03/04/2010 20:27

I'm so sorry, can't begin to imagine how you must feel, but just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you

Rockbird · 03/04/2010 20:28

I'm so so sorry Echo what everyone else said. Is there someone there with you?

willsurvivethis · 03/04/2010 20:28

A thing or two has been said about your DH, by me as well - but none of you deserved this How are your children?

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snowkitten · 03/04/2010 20:29

mu mum is here. The house hsa been swarming with family and friends, the phone has not stopped ringing. I am well supported but shocked and surprisingly devastated

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ilovesprouts · 03/04/2010 20:31

sk ,how old was he

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snowkitten · 03/04/2010 20:32

the youngest is only 3 so he is not really aware. dd 12 is more aware and has kept herself busy seeing friends. She is bewildered. Things have been so hard for her recenlty. She will need lots of tlc and gently handling. I am working hard on not making her feel guilty as she and dh had some run ins. She loved him dearly - he was her Daddy

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snowkitten · 03/04/2010 20:33

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ilovesprouts · 03/04/2010 20:35

oh im so sorry my sister ex bf went the same way too hes was same age as your dh ,of course dd loves daddy very much x

CarGirl · 03/04/2010 20:38

It is a huge shock for all of you despite the recent months, it is no surprise that you are devastated. Your poor dd, remember that she is old enough to understand that her daddy wasn't really very well when she had the run ins.